Maybe it is achievable for us mortals too? 
SexyGreyWolf : It's really amazing you managed to publish these, and also such a cool ideas - so I take my hat off to you!!! Especially since I myself dream of publishing a science book for kids one day, so it seems to be in a similar spirit.
Edrof : But how do you know if a publisher is a vanity publisher? I mean it's not like they advertise themselves as such right![]()
I must say I find it encouraging to see that so many people have managed to publish somethingMaybe it is achievable for us mortals too?
But how did you all solve the publishing house vs. self-publishing issue? And where did you get help to decide everything about the book?
What do you mean about "decide everything about the book"?
Not quite what OP was talking about but I used to write articles for a Japanese car magazine a few years back.
My wife writes children's stories but never got to the point of publishing due to cost and market trends (was at the time Harry Potter came out so everything was about magic etc).
Has your wife looked at self-publishing? Lots of children's authors go down that route.