So, argument the wife and I are having and I shan't mention which side I'm on or her side. Just the opposing opinions so there isn't any bias in it.
In short, we went to an open mic night last night and we didn't get time to walk the pupper properly during the day so he had a bit more energy than usual (1yo, needs at least 1 long walk a day).
So, he took his frustrations out on one of the sofa pillows. Now he rarely chews and hasn't destroyed anything in a while, he's not snipped so gets those 'moments' of madness still. A bit of a shock when we got home and the place was a snowy winterland of pillow stuffing and a very excited pup eagerly awaiting out return.
1 opinion is that he didn't know what he did wrong until one of us confronted him with part of the evidence and put on a stern voice. After that, he should know what he did was wrong and will remember it the day after.
The other opinion is he was acting to nothing other than the angry tone and doesn't know nor remember what he did wrong. So any punishment the day after (punishment is sort of silent treatment, not the usual tonnes of love and fuss and a reminder with some of the evidence of yesterdays onslaught)
What are your opinions? Do dogs remember? Or only react to your behaviour at the given time?
Just to add in, we don't beat or smack the dog, we give him taps on the snoot when he's putting it places it shouldn't be and a little slap on the arse if he's pushing his luck but barely enough for him to feel it. We've trained using positive reinforcement and it's gone amazingly well (better than I expected), he knows all the tricks, well behaved but just has a few bad habits which are yet to be ironed out as he is still a puppy after all.
This is the little **** in question in his crate, we have him crate trained but we never lock him in it. We treated it sort of as his 'safe space', we don't enter it and anything in there is his and he often chills in there to get some shut eye.
In short, we went to an open mic night last night and we didn't get time to walk the pupper properly during the day so he had a bit more energy than usual (1yo, needs at least 1 long walk a day).
So, he took his frustrations out on one of the sofa pillows. Now he rarely chews and hasn't destroyed anything in a while, he's not snipped so gets those 'moments' of madness still. A bit of a shock when we got home and the place was a snowy winterland of pillow stuffing and a very excited pup eagerly awaiting out return.
1 opinion is that he didn't know what he did wrong until one of us confronted him with part of the evidence and put on a stern voice. After that, he should know what he did was wrong and will remember it the day after.
The other opinion is he was acting to nothing other than the angry tone and doesn't know nor remember what he did wrong. So any punishment the day after (punishment is sort of silent treatment, not the usual tonnes of love and fuss and a reminder with some of the evidence of yesterdays onslaught)
What are your opinions? Do dogs remember? Or only react to your behaviour at the given time?
Just to add in, we don't beat or smack the dog, we give him taps on the snoot when he's putting it places it shouldn't be and a little slap on the arse if he's pushing his luck but barely enough for him to feel it. We've trained using positive reinforcement and it's gone amazingly well (better than I expected), he knows all the tricks, well behaved but just has a few bad habits which are yet to be ironed out as he is still a puppy after all.
This is the little **** in question in his crate, we have him crate trained but we never lock him in it. We treated it sort of as his 'safe space', we don't enter it and anything in there is his and he often chills in there to get some shut eye.


