Do you dance?

jp_bl_68 said:
Pretty much everyone I know likes clubbing/raving but I always feel out of place because I don't dance. I'd like to, but I have no idea how, I've got no rhythm and I'm too self-conscious to really let myself go.
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It probably helps to realise that pretty much no-one but your mates (and maybe not even them) care how you dance - unless you're absolutely excruciatingly bad then it's unlikely that you'll even be noticed. Once you figure that out then there's no real reason to be self-conscious.

I used to avoid dancing at all costs but then figured out I was denying myself a lot of fun to no purpose so now I'm happy enough to dance when I feel like it, I've still got no rhythm and I no doubt look like a plank while doing so but what they hell, it's about entertaining me rather than anyone else.
 
To the amazement of most people that know me, I can actually do both ballroom and latin dancing, i'm just incredibly self conscious about doing it. I don't dance in clubs though, don't fancy being one of those tools that bashes into everyone.
 
I was never a great dancer but would often have a dance after a few drinks. Now though I am a father of two so I will never be seen dancing every again.
 
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