do you keep contact with your Ex?

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Even thou i think that if you like them enough to go out with them in the first place, you should stays friends with them. I seem to have lost contact (more like lack of effort) with all of them. Do you think Ex-BF/GF should stay friends or it's better to cut it off clean all together?
 
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i still really care for my ex, but in a friend care type way, i work with her, see her 5 times a week and we still go drinking together, so we gave a close relationship.
 
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My thoughts on this are that you should only stay friends if you can live with him/her being with someone else. Otherwise you're letting yourself in for a world of hurt in the long run.

Personally I find that I have no option. If I don't talk to her then she'll harass me until I do :o
 
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I still keep in contact, but then I realy miss her and would get back together with her given the chance, don't think she will keep in contact after shes finished uni tho.
 
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Some yes, some no. Mostly no though.

Most of the less serious ones I'm still in contact with, but I'm most definately not in contact with the ex that I was engaged to. Having changed telephone numbers and email addresses to avoid her, I'm not rushing back into making contact with her again.
 
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Depends on how the relationship ended and depends on how serious the relationship was. With the ex-wife it would be very difficult to stay friends, as the divorce is getting messy and I aint spoken to her since October.

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with a ex-girlfriend from 8yrs ago I stay see her at work and still speak to one another and remain friends.

So....... some yes, others no.
 
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My last ex I do. We'd probably see each other every day if i didn't live 100+ miles away as we get on rediculously well and have a right laugh when we're together.

Unfortunately, there's some complications as her older sister goes to the same university as me. :o
 
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I tried to be friends with my last ex, but after 5/6 months of trying I told her I couldn't do it as I still had feelings for her and it wouldn't be fair, I also mentioned that I had a new email address and mobile number. She ranted like a goodun at me calling me all sorts of names :rolleyes: . Luckily she's at uni so I don't have the chance of bumping into her, although my stupid sister did invite her over the other while she was back in the village :mad:
 
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