do you keep contact with your Ex?

Raymond Lin · 28 Apr 2006 at 21:56

Even thou i think that if you like them enough to go out with them in the first place, you should stays friends with them. I seem to have lost contact (more like lack of effort) with all of them. Do you think Ex-BF/GF should stay friends or it's better to cut it off clean all together?

da_mic_1530 · 28 Apr 2006 at 21:58

i still really care for my ex, but in a friend care type way, i work with her, see her 5 times a week and we still go drinking together, so we gave a close relationship.

VaderDSL · 28 Apr 2006 at 21:59

Yes, we're still close and good friends still

which I'm thankful for

Kell_ee001 · 28 Apr 2006 at 22:03

Some yes, some no.

Most that I'm not in contact with I'm not bothered about although there is one I wish was dfiiferent

DannyDan · 28 Apr 2006 at 22:03

My thoughts on this are that you should only stay friends if you can live with him/her being with someone else. Otherwise you're letting yourself in for a world of hurt in the long run.

Personally I find that I have no option. If I don't talk to her then she'll harass me until I do

basmic · 28 Apr 2006 at 22:03

I did at first. Then they moved away, and haven't bothered to attempt contact since.

Let's just say the move was welcome.

VeNT · 28 Apr 2006 at 22:06

I still keep in contact, but then I realy miss her and would get back together with her given the chance, don't think she will keep in contact after shes finished uni tho.

Burbleflop · 28 Apr 2006 at 22:12

Some yes, some no. Mostly no though.

Most of the less serious ones I'm still in contact with, but I'm most definately not in contact with the ex that I was engaged to. Having changed telephone numbers and email addresses to avoid her, I'm not rushing back into making contact with her again.

Defcon5 · 28 Apr 2006 at 22:17

Personally i go out of my way to avoid my ex gf.

she has a tendancy to start crying and wailing at me.

ScoobyDoo · 28 Apr 2006 at 22:18

Depends on how the relationship ended and depends on how serious the relationship was. With the ex-wife it would be very difficult to stay friends, as the divorce is getting messy and I aint spoken to her since October.

but
with a ex-girlfriend from 8yrs ago I stay see her at work and still speak to one another and remain friends.

So....... some yes, others no.

Gilly · 28 Apr 2006 at 22:25

Mostly I do. In fact I can't think of one I don't say hello to when I see them.

I don't stay in very close contact with the majority though.

Kreeeee · 28 Apr 2006 at 22:29

I stay in touch with some.

smokey · 28 Apr 2006 at 22:33

Yes, but I shouldn't.

They're stalkers.

Spunj99 · 28 Apr 2006 at 22:34

My last ex I do. We'd probably see each other every day if i didn't live 100+ miles away as we get on rediculously well and have a right laugh when we're together.

Unfortunately, there's some complications as her older sister goes to the same university as me.

SideWinder · 28 Apr 2006 at 22:39

Yes, yes i do.

Wossi · 28 Apr 2006 at 22:40

I tried to be friends with my last ex, but after 5/6 months of trying I told her I couldn't do it as I still had feelings for her and it wouldn't be fair, I also mentioned that I had a new email address and mobile number. She ranted like a goodun at me calling me all sorts of names :rolleyes:

. Luckily she's at uni so I don't have the chance of bumping into her, although my stupid sister did invite her over the other while she was back in the village :mad:

SidewinderINC · 28 Apr 2006 at 22:41

SideWinder said:
Yes, yes i do.

yup, i do too.

very good mates with her actually, she stays over everynow and again (none of that funny business lark though)! i'd say she's probably my best mate, care for her very deeply still.

paul@ · 28 Apr 2006 at 22:48

Nope, never had a ex-wife before

pyro · 28 Apr 2006 at 22:52

Last I'v heard she got married, so I guess I am lucky not to be with her :eek:

Gilly · 28 Apr 2006 at 22:52

paul@ said:
Nope, never had a ex-wife before