Do you keep up with old school buddies?

I agree with what kahn says, I learnt a lot about people from moving to a new area and it really did open my eyes to some things. I will only put in to a friendship as to what they do and dont think it should be one-way. It has made me value the friendship of the ones that still try from down south more so :)
 
Just one of them, and he's my best mate. All the others either turned into self obsessed morons, hit the drugs or moved away.

Most of my friends are from college in the next town.
 
Kell_ee001 said:
I hear from a lot of them through FB but I really suck at keeping in contact with people :(
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Sort of this really.

Kept in contact with most of the friends I've made in college (etc) though :)

Still a group of us that meet up for beerskis and stuff on the weekends too :D
 
Im still very much in touch with my two best mates from school...Considuring we all never went to the same college or uni and still managed to meet up once every month is awesome. Although im in London atm so its whenever I go home they get back aswell so we can do summet.

Also going to America with them next year for two weeks :D Cant wait.

Saying that, there the only two people from school I DO speak to...Most of the time the only time i see people from school I just see on a night out and am like "Hey you..."
 
Only one. I left 18 years ago and don't do all those scoial networking websites or friends websites. After going to my 10 years school reunion I decided the last thing I want is these people trying to contact me. The worst night out of my life.

Groups of grown adults sitting in the same cliques as when they were 14. Loads of people forcing down your throat how much they earnt and not once asking what you even did for a living.

I ignored the 15 year and will do the same for the 20. What can I possibly have in common with these people 20 years on other than attending the same school.
 
left school at 16, seen my best mate a few times but not seen anyone else. Wouldent waste my time on 99% of them, a few i would like to meet up with but no means of contact.
 
I regularly meet up with folks I went to school with even though it's 14 years since I left.

I live at the other end of the country, but lets face it, this isn't a big country and some of them live down here anyway. I'm meeting a mate from school for drinks next week actually.
 
A few have contacted me through Facebook but I can't really say I'm in contact on a regular basis with people from school or six form college ... which is a bit of a pity as there are a few who I'd like to meet up with.

I'm not in contact with most of the people I knew at Uni either anymore, (in fact probably only one of them), which is a pity as again I'd like to be ...

I'm just not very good at having people want to stay in contact with me ...
 
dannyjo22 said:
Only one. I left 18 years ago and don't do all those scoial networking websites or friends websites. After going to my 10 years school reunion I decided the last thing I want is these people trying to contact me. The worst night out of my life.

Groups of grown adults sitting in the same cliques as when they were 14. Loads of people forcing down your throat how much they earnt and not once asking what you even did for a living.

I ignored the 15 year and will do the same for the 20. What can I possibly have in common with these people 20 years on other than attending the same school.
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That's funny, same little cliques, that is exactly right, i had firends at school but hated the cliques. I have no problem with the social ladder but hardcore cliques who think they can dictate others, well no time for it...
 
my best mate i knew from school, i have a couple of people who added me on facebook, i am not there friend though and i think they just added me so they can see what i am up to. will delete them soon.
 
Nope. I havent spoken to anyone from school in 8 years. I'm not the same person as I was then, and I can't imagine i'd have much to say if I bumped into any of them now.
 
I moved away from Colchester (where I grew up and went to school) to just outside North East London 6 years ago, and kept in touch with quite a lot of friends from school as I was still up there every weekend (my ex was still there).

Since I broke up with her, I have not once heard from any single one of them (and granted I've not contacted them either), not even the couple who I thought were very good/close friends.

Actually... typing this out makes me realise that the only "friends" I have are those who I have met through an internet forum, one of whom lives just down the road from where I moved to, who I still keep in contact with now that I've moved to Swindon to be with my current partner.

I've not got any "friends" from jobs I've had/got, and I've not yet made any good friends from Swindon.
 
KaHn said:
Then who cares and ignore them..

Never worry about who likes you just be sure you know who you like and who you can trust.
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Its a bit hard when they are family friends and our parents are friends too :/

I don't worry... I have culled many people on FB before and it looks like I am about to do it again.

BB x
 
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