Dodgy text advice

tom_e · 18 May 2019 at 09:09

You're not particularly close to either of them, ignore it and get on with your life. It'll be pointless getting involved.

diamount · 18 May 2019 at 09:20

If he's seeing another woman then that's clearly between him and his current partner.

darkgen · 18 May 2019 at 11:15

Telecaster said:
-" ... I am the man you trust, the only man you love so why?" - quickly followed by - "ignore that".

I haven't replied since. I'm just wondering what to do about it?

To do about what? It was a mismessage. As instructed; ignore it.

Roar87 · 18 May 2019 at 16:09

You Dads in his 70's seeing multiple women and his son's on OCUK forums asking what to do about a text from his Dad, I can imagine why you aren't close

Van_Dammesque · 18 May 2019 at 21:02

Post poop through his letterbox with a note saying "Love u too!"...

lakitu · 18 May 2019 at 22:50

Do you care if he's having an affair? She's not your mum and you are not that close to him. I say let the man have some fun.

wedrum · 18 May 2019 at 22:55

He is smashing some fresh pasty, at his age who cares leave him to it.

[FnG]magnolia · 18 May 2019 at 23:15

lakitu said:
Do you care if he's having an affair? She's not your mum and you are not that close to him. I say let the man have some fun.

Also my take.

Stephanie Peterson · 18 May 2019 at 23:34

Ask for pics or you will spill.

To be honest if it was me and he was nobbing a bit of crusty flange on the side i would say something to him about it, how disappointed you are ect. Just me but i detest two timers and i would make it clear to him. That said i wouldnt bother taking it any further as not knowing the other lady or being a major part of there lives ect..

AHarvey · 18 May 2019 at 23:37

Man up, take him out, tell him straight you've no allegiance to his wife but you want him to man up and tell you what's going on.