Dont take things for granted....

IBT 'do her sister/mum/best friend' comments.

That sucks, man. Take the positive from it, though, and make sure to never do this again in future relationships.
 
I've been guilty of this on a number of occasions.

At least you know what part you played in it, now you can learn from your mistakes and make a relationship that's even better!
 
[FnG]magnolia;17754642 said:
IBT 'do her sister/mum/best friend' comments.

That sucks, man. Take the positive from it, though, and make sure to never do this again in future relationships.
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Yeah it sucks and can truly say i have learnt my lesson. Just a shame we cant turn back time 'eh?
 
A lesson learnt the hard way but at least you’ll now go forward knowing something very important and it will make your next relationship even better. So chin up.:)
 
You seem like a nice person, good of you to try to look out for others when things go wrong for yourself in the word of warning.
I have to admit, I too am guilty of this at times.
I'll take your advise, and I hope that whatever you want to happen from here does.
 
AsaTDi said:
(PRE WARNING: Relationship fail!!)

Well the girlfriend ended things with me last night after over 3 years together.

Absolutely gutted and heartbroken beyond belief! Never thought it would end like this, truly thought she was the one i would settle down and be with until the end (cheesy but true)

There were a lot of reasons why i think she ended the relationship, but a major factor was the fact i took her for granted and treated her like a doormat!

Its far too easy to do and not realise your doing it..... I suppose i just got too comfortable for my own good.

yeah i hear that, i did the same to my ex wife, never realised i was doing it, and was too smug in the thought that she would never leave me.
After 9 years it still burns, chance for true happiness lost.


Don't do what i did other wise you might end up losing the person who means the most to you and you might not realise it now, it may just take something like that has happened to me for you to realise how much you truly did love and care for that person!


So just a pre warning guys/gals..... Just take a step back and have a look at what you have with your partner and ask yourself...'Do i really what to lose them?'
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6 people I know including myself have had the same thing happen in the last month. All long term relationships. It is sad.

To balance this I have 5 weddings to attend next year.

That's life.

BB x
 
yeah i hear that , i did the same to my ex wife, it still burns after 9 yrs, i feel like my chance for true happiness has escaped, due to my foolishness.
 
or maybe you'd get back with them and realise that she wasn't the one for you maybe at all, elst you'd have fought for it more
 
It's not only your fault - she could have said something before it got to this stage.

In fact, it's not clear whether or not she even gave you a reason - you're talking about what you think her reasons were.

If anyone is seriously bothered by something their partner is or isn't doing, communicating with them is generally a better option than doing nothing about it until it has bothered you so much you have to leave. Some things can be fixed.
 
sorry to hear that mate, at least you know why it went wrong.

ohh and just for LOL's

Worst I need a new doormat thread ever...
 
really feel for you mate.

if you really feel the way you do, couldn't you try to go back to her, or just appologise to her, let her know you care, and that you screwed up.

will make you feel better mate.

the way you have come across is that she doesn't even know how much you like her, do you really want the 'if only' question burning inside you until you meet someone else?

if you won't do that, you really need to try to forget her fast, going to be very hard mate, but got to be done

good luck
 
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