Driving Instructor Ramble.

It's the driving instructors fault, not yours. If he has dual controls he could have stopped the car himself.
Whenever I drive through an amber/red (a lot) I just shout out loud, "For it would have been dangerous for me to stop!"
 
Sounds like a person with some ongoing personal issues to me.

My instructor just used to perv at the pretty girls walking by during my lessons and go "look at that, phwoar" etc.

I don't really think that's worth complaining about :p
 
I think its inflated more by bad driving instructors with gimmicks to get people on the books, Common sense seems to go out of the window when it comes to choosing an instructor

You have the teens that want lessons in the latest cool hot hatch regardless of the skill of the instructor and the bargain hunters that don't stop to think there must be a reason the lessons are so cheap

Then add to that the naive people who just believe anything there bad instructor tells them and end up doing way more lessons than they actually needed

You speak with common sense which makes a refreshing change!

Around the rural area in which I live, there are instructors who advertise 10 lessons for £99.00! It's clearly not possible to make any form of living by charging that sort of money for lessons given the running costs of the vehicle alone - my average fuel bill works out to between £4 and £5 per hour average over the year which takes into account pick-ups, student location, test area location etc. If these instructors were paying out that sort of money, it would leave just over £5.00 per hour to cover all the other aspects of running a business, not to mention paying themseves a wage.
The only way they can cut costs is by sitting out most of the lessons by the roadside or on an industrial estate and then dragging the lessons out to try and make some money.
However, there are still people naive enough to go to these instructors and base their instructor choice on lesson prices alone rather than reputation.

I can always tell when someone phones and enquires regarding driving tuition - if they ask to book lessons with me without asking the price, they are booking invariably on reputation whereas others will ask the price first and for more information which is understandable or others will freely admit that are just ringing around for prices and aren't bothered who they get as long as they are cheap. It's the latter ones I don't want.

I often get calls from people ringing around to find the cheapest instructor and often don't hear back from them - however, some time later I'll often get a call from the same people unhappy with whom they chose but if I can remember them ringing originally, I'll never take them on.

Of course a student should change instructors if they feel the instructor is not giving a good service or there are conflicts in personality but, many students have an unrealistic idea of what learning to drive is all about - couple that with very often student attitude problems which the instructor has also to deal with, most instructors on the whole do a decent job...it's just the poor ones which give the industry a bad name.
 
I pay a pretty high price for my lessons (They seem to be higher here in the Isle of Man on a whole but I'm not sure and anyway, it's paid with my child allowence :D) and I'll gladly pay it. My instructors great. If I make a small mistake he'll just tell what I did wrong when we're crusing along and if I make a big mistake that usually involves the dual pedals such as not spotting a car coming from the right on a roundabout that was behind another car turning left then he'll have me pull in and tell me what I did wrong. No shouting involved. He also has a very high pass rate, something like 70% i've heard.
 
I pay a pretty high price for my lessons (They seem to be higher here in the Isle of Man on a whole but I'm not sure and anyway, it's paid with my child allowence :D) and I'll gladly pay it. My instructors great. If I make a small mistake he'll just tell what I did wrong when we're crusing along and if I make a big mistake that usually involves the dual pedals such as not spotting a car coming from the right on a roundabout that was behind another car turning left then he'll have me pull in and tell me what I did wrong. No shouting involved. He also has a very high pass rate, something like 70% i've heard.

my instructor was very good like this, he would sometimes raise he voice when I did things really really stupid but that only reinforces the importance of being vigilant.
 
There's not really anything wrong with taking a lot of lessons to learn, assuming you aren't proper Maureen grade material.

Absolutely!
As long as the instructor is doing his job correctly, then it's all down to the aptitude of the student which can vary enormously.

Some students are so bad, it's not an instructor they need - it's Harry Potter and even then, I suspect he'd still have problems.

I have several "Maureen" types on my books at the moment but, they are all MALES!
 
You did the right thing, when I had my lessons, my instructor had a mild go at me for breaking at an amber light - saying it was more dangerous to suddenly stop. After that I never stopped at an amber again.
 
50 hours of lessons though? How is that split up in terms of what you're learning? Is this without driving outside of lessons?
 
I had at least 50, over the course of like 6 years. I had some lessons, went to uni, came back, took some more lessons, changed intructor, passed on 3rd attempt.

One instructor told me he had a student only had 3 lessons and passed. But he was driving his mum's car for months already.
 
It's his job to teach you, if you were going to make a substantial mistake he would intervene.

I don't think you made a mistake but even if you did it's his fault and completely unprofessional to scream or tell you off, you're both adults after all. Find yourself a better driving instructor, there're out there.
 
Ditch your instructor and go somewhere else theres plenty around.

my first instructor was okay to start with for about 6 lessons,But like all new drivers we all have our issues with certian things and he started to get frustrated with me even though i was trying hard,he keep having a go raising his voice did not make it any easier for me so i told him not to come next time...he didnt like it.

switched instructors and he was brill,never raised his voice..i learned more with him in two lessons than i did with the other one in six and was finding it much better.

However due to money and time issues i had to stop having lessons,Not had any more since i moved close to work and dont need a car so i just push bike it.
 
That's Michael Cera right? What film is that from?

Oh and your instructor obviously has issues maybe mental. What you did is everyday occurrence. I did it many times during my lessons.

the film is Youth in Revolt and here is the scene, funny :D

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DYTATEwJ_SA


As for the OP, maybe the guy was just having a bad day. If not switch instructors. It's his fault if you make mistakes.
 
Amber / red is fair game if your not going to be able to stop within a safe distance. So when i am driving my works van and it has 1ton in it no way am i goona be able to break quick and stop and if car is behind me dont want to be slamming the brakes on either
 
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