On reflection, I think that driving pleasure has changed.
When I was younger (30+ years ago), roads had far less traffic, no speed cameras and far fewer restrictions. On top of that, drivers were a good deal more polite.
So the odd "spot of fun" was possible.
Now, well things have changed. There's just too much traffic and a lack of general politeness. I struggle to understand how most newer "performance cars" ever get the chance to really stretch their legs.
To get pleasure from driving, I am to take pleasure from driving by driving in a different style. For example:
- my toy/commuter car is a personalised MX5. Roof down it's a lovely place to be, and it's far easier to drive at realistic road speeds and get fun out of it
- deliberately being polite, e.g. build in more breaking distance than I really need, to make it easier for drivers coming the other way to turn right infront of me, or pull out from side roads
- Aiming to be precise in how I drive. Doesn't need to be done whilst breaking the speed limit. It's still possible to drive smoothly and accurately and take pleasure from doing that well