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I've got a tenner that says this gets painfully dragged out, but if you wanna save yourself a lot of trouble:

Bin her and move on.
 
I already know the guy and arent really interested in doing anything to anyone! Just wanted to have other peoples opinions about whether I was over-reacting to the email in the first place! I think I got that answer OCuk style :D Didnt expect so many people to be on here to have so many replies so quickly hehe. Suppose its a sun night tho so not much else to do apart from wait for work!
 
Simple, get rid, ive been in similar situations and it never gets better. Certain girls thrive on that ****.

Move on and remove her from your life, if you dont the pain will be more than it is now.

Sorry ya have to go through this man.

Albaba
 
As has already been said in this thread. Dump her - she has already shown herself to be a lier.

From past experience, what I would do is end the relationship without getting angry, spiteful or attempting to gain some sort of vengeance.

Although telling her what you think/shouting/being nasty/cross might make you feel better at the time, in the long run it is far better to retain composure and dignity when you end the relationship. This way when you draw closure on the whole episode yourself, you will be able to look back and remember that you did the right thing and that the only person left feeling like a complete tool will be her.
 
Cheers for all the replies. Just needed to feel a little better about moving on and cant quite believe I turned to an internet forum! Suppose typing away helps get it out of the head.

Didnt expect the post count to shoot up this fast and can see this going on for aaages! Is it possible for a mod to lock it? How do you get in contact with one?! Feeling slightly stupid now lol
 
i tohught that you had been reading this place for a long time, surely you would have noticed how quickly certain types of posts get filled with info/spam/abuse*


*delete as appropriate ;]
 
No need to feel stupid at all dude, a lot of people go thru this stuff and its good to get it off you chest.

Hope the next one ya meet is the right one :)

Albaba
 
Don't think it was fair on her you posted that email on a public forum..

Dump her though, she is obviously not too interested in you.
 
Save your petrol money for a girl that deserves it, aka not her.... ditch the *****
 
Totality said:
Let this be a lesson to anyone! Women are very good liars!!
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Correction some people are very good liars.

As for if you should stay with her, no I don't think you should. She has behaved very badly towards you. Also if you are prepared to post a personal email she sent (whoever it was sent to) then there is absolutely no trust whatsover left between you. It doesn't sound like there is anything substantial enough left of the relationship to build on. It does sound like if you took her back it would just go sour again sooner or later.
 
Amoeba said:
Don't think it was fair on her you posted that email on a public forum..

Dump her though, she is obviously not too interested in you.
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Would have been worse if I'd left her name, etc in it ;) I've asked for the thread to be locked now! Looks like it could get out of hand lol. Removed my original post too!!
 
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Never forget there is always another option in these situations. Kill her and bury her in the woods.

Its a win win situation, i reckon that would wipe the smile off her face :D

But remember if you dont do it properly there is always the chance of that jail thing....


Albaba ;)
 
Martins said:
he's been seeing her for 6 months, something is very wrong if he hasn't done her yet?
Or do you mean, before he dumps her? If so.. that leads me to a rather shameful memory where I dumped a girl while she was drunk and we were both in bed, both went to sleep, woke up the next morning, shagged her, /then/ reminded her I'd dumped her.

Erm... Yeah.. don't do that!
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Zefan said:
You're on top, finish up in your hand then "GO WEB GO" ---> face.
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2 of the best quotes ever....
 
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