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Go on the rebound tour, cant beat it, solves nothing, but at least you get your end away in the getting over stage. Drove an ex of mine nutz.... Phone call from her "How have you been, getting over you has been hard, but I slept with a few women to help" its very basic and rubbish, but she wanted back with after that. Fortunately I saw the erroor of my ways and said a flat no way.... God that was almost 13 years ago....
 
kvfb97 said:
After the whole jealousy thing and stuff me and my girlfriend and split up. I've tried telling her I would do anything for her and that I want to change but she wont let me. She keeps saying I shouldnt have to change etc.

Just off the phone (after she done it over msn and wouldn't answer my phone calls etc) and when I asked her does she still want me she never answered and when I asked her does she still love me she never answered.

I don't know what to do. she said she'll text me later. she hung up after me pleading for 5 mins. Wouldnt let me come round or anything.

Im a NO SWEARING and I want to change, she jsut wont give me the chance.

We've been going for a year and a half now, well not anymore.

I've nothing to do. I'm lonely and feel like I should top my self tbh. Also feel I've no one to goto as she was my only proper friend who I could talk to.
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If your profile is right your only 18. Try not to worry to much about it. Between about 16 and 22 you become the person you'll be for the rest of your life. If you are a **** then change it on your own.

Don't talk daft about topping yourself, go and have a pint with a few mates. You'll be fine:) In a few weeks this will be old news, in the mean time keep yourself busy

Davem
 
I'd agree with the cutting off contact thing. Recently broke up with my long term GF after I found out when one of her ex's came to visit she cheated on me ruining any trust I had with her.

Hurt like hell for a few weeks and didnt know what to do with myself with her constantly calling and texting me saying she loves me but all the time still going round his place "as friends". Long distance thing and without the trust is just didnt work.

I stopped calling or texting her and moved on as at that point I hit the part where you want them back!! She said she didnt know who she wanted and I should move on so thats what I did. Went out and found a nice new girl and been with her ever since! Cue her sending abuse after she found out saying how could I move on so quickly and it shows I never loved her blah blah as I found someone else.

Was funny that she couldnt decide who she wanted but as soon as I moved on she wanted me back badly and wouldnt stop calling or texting. I've now changed my phone number and she's just a bad memory these days.

So as the posts above really. Seems women love to be ignored because as soon as they see you moving on and enjoying life again they suddenly dont feel loved so want you back! Crazy :eek:
 
Go out and date as many other women as possible. This might take yer mind off her, and it will also show you aren't clingy.

In fact I've found this is more likely to make her want to get back together compared to pleading/begging, which can kind leave you coming off as desperate.
 
Forget her, trust me. If she wont take you how you are she isn't worth your time. You shouldn't have to change yourself to make someone happy, i learnt that the hard way and am still learning
 
You only learn when you find the right person, up until then you just usually keep making a prat of yourself. When you meet the right woman you will know, she will be what you want. If not

keep going.
 
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^true, like im making a prat of myself now, as i i know this girl is over a guy house (i wont say how i know) but im still trying to text her *sigh*
 
Dreadi said:
^true, like im making a prat of myself now, as i i know this girl is over a guy house (i wont say how i know) but im still trying to text her *sigh*
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Delete her number and move on jesus. Wait till something bad happens in your life you'll realise how insignificant this is
 
I'd say go make some friends as it sounds like you feel far worse because she was the only person in your life right now. Get out, do some stuff, make some friends. It's amazing how quickly you get over someone when you dont sit around thinking about it 24/7. Good luck fella:)
 
Blackstar said:
Now a lot of my friends have come back and i'm having a ball, hardly had a minute to myself with all the people texting me and wanting to hang out.
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that's the sign of true friends. it's the best feeling ever, and the timing's perfect.
 
Sic said:
that's the sign of true friends. it's the best feeling ever, and the timing's perfect.
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The oddest simultaneous worst/best feeling is when you realise you've neglected your friends because of some over-demanding bint, and, despite this, they still take you back under their wings and buy you a pint :)
 
yeah, totally. makes you want to thank your ex, too because you never neglect them again!
 
Know the feeling mate. It'll hurt quite a bit for a few weeks, and then things will get much better, trust me.

Don't be all needy, don't text or call, or spend every hour of everyday wondering what they're up too. Just get on with your own life, enjoy it, you only live the once!!!
 
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