So is it fluffing her hair slightly that's the problem? I mean, obviously it's a slightly odd thing to do but in reality isn't this a compete ******* none issue? Aren't there more pressing things to be worried about?
I suppose I should add some context here, I did once jokingly tousle a female friends hair.
Friend being the operative word. Generally a man you don't know and have given no encouragement to coming in close, face to face with you and playing with your hair - yes, that's creepy and invasive.