Ever dated someone married?!

I got myself into a bit of a situation new years eve with a married woman, we was both drunk. I think she might be expecting a call from me so we can meet up.

However she has 2 kids and when I woke up new years day I felt terrible. I told my girlfriend not to read to much into it, it was just a lot of talk and some kissing on the dance floor in a club (luckily her husband was in the club as was my girlfriend)

Stuff like this can really mess with your head and I'm glad I came to my senses, I'd quite happily expect a black eye next time I see her husband if he has found out.

/hangs head in shame
 
Must admit, I had a fling with a married woman – who was quite a bit older then me. It was a long time ago, I was young and vulnerable. She certainly took advantage, I know she was in a problematic marriage – her husband didn’t care about her. He was cheating on her, so, and at the time I didn’t know this, she slept with me to just lash out and get her own back - it was complicated. Isn't it always..!!

I felt kinda crummy afterwards, after all I’d helped a couple cheat on each other. The circumstances were to me at the time she was to split and being me and young and foolish thought I could finally catch a fairly attractive woman. All I got was heartache and scolded.

Basically, unless they are living on their own, or their husbands are out the picture completely and divorce proceedings are taking place – just don’t go there. Dating or even sleeping with woman that are married and still with their husbands is really just opening the doors to a lot of problems.

I’m sure its now one of the reasons I have so little trust for woman at first – it now takes quite a while for me to trust anyone.
 
Mat said:
What did your girlfriend have to say about that?!
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Well the fact that I told her straight up helped so she didn't have to find out from anyone else. I don't think she was impressed one bit but what is done is done, I apologised to her.
 
AcidHell2 said:
Nope. EIther they leave first, or don't date. If there willing to cheat on there husband. they'll have no qualms with cheating on you.
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Find myself quoting you a lot :confused:

Anyway What he said :p
I always think to myself **** if she would do that to her Husband she aint worth ****. I like Dirty women but not that kind of dirty.
I have ridden a few married women though but only found out later you can't help it at my age. They get blanked as soon as i find out though.
 
AcidHell2 said:
Nope. EIther they leave first, or don't date. If there willing to cheat on there husband. they'll have no qualms with cheating on you.
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I missed this. The above is soooo true.

A close (former) friend of mine was dating a guy who left a relationship of 6yrson the spot to be with her.... I was saying he'd be quite likely to leave her if someone else came along.
 
SgtTupac said:
My ex was seeing my mate.. we had an affair and she left him for me... then she cheated on me with someone else... Karma! What goes around comes around and i deserved it.. Id never ever cheat on anyone again
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exactly the same happened to me. staying away from cheating ***** now...
 
If you cheat with a married woman, and she leaves her husband for you, what makes you think she wouldnt do the same to you in a couple of years time? Once a cheater always a cheater. Its not worth it.
 
“what makes you think she wouldnt do the same to you in a couple of years time? Once a cheater always a cheater. Its not worth it.”
It's not that simple. It depends on why she cheated. There are lots of people out there who cheated and are 100% happy and none cheating in there new marriage. Sometimes there are good reasons to cheat.
 
Pottsey said:
“what makes you think she wouldnt do the same to you in a couple of years time? Once a cheater always a cheater. Its not worth it.”
It's not that simple. It depends on why she cheated. There are lots of people out there who cheated and are 100% happy and none cheating in there new marriage. Sometimes there are good reasons to cheat.
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No there isnt. If you want to be with someone else, then at least have the decency to end it with your current partner. Unless youre looking for a quick meaningless fling. In which case that says it all about your commitment values.
 
“No there isnt. If you want to be with someone else, then at least have the decency to end it with your current partner.”
So yeah lets tell the abusive husband that your cheating that's not going cause any problems. She might need a stable supporting relationship to get the courage to devoice the abusive husband she hates and she might need a place to go

Or perhaps the marriage is long over for what ever reason and she no longer considers it the Husbands business what she does, they might not even be talking to each other any more. or what if they hate each other and are only together for the children and have plans to split up once the children hit say 18?

Its not always as simple as many people on here make it out to be.



“then at least have the decency to end it with your current partner.”
What if the problem is the current partner is never there and will not talk to you?
 
You learn from mistakes - I made the mistake once, however it was fun, exciting and whilst morally ambiguous I regret it in part, another part of me really didn't care. You're young and live once make mistakes learn from them and be happy!
 
Morals are like art; you have to draw the line somewhere.

However that doesn't stop me from wanting to make a Moaning Lisa.

Wouldn't want to hurt kids though.
 
Done something very simliair, although she was engaged ( she got engaged whilst we were 'together').

Was it worth it, yeah it was good memory's and some good, really good fun!

I do regret it though, her bf seems a decent guy.
 
You remember Antwan Rockamora? Half-black, half-Samoan, usta call him 'Tony Rocky Horror'?

Apparently he gave a married woman a foot massage.

The husband found out. Sent a couple of guys over to his place. They took him out on the patio of his apartment, threw his ass over the balcony.

I agree with Mr.Greenlizard0. Wait until you're married and you think your wife is dating.
 
panthro said:
If you cheat with a married woman, and she leaves her husband for you, what makes you think she wouldnt do the same to you in a couple of years time? Once a cheater always a cheater. Its not worth it.
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Always a true word spoken. Ive found out this the hard way.
Its really not worth it.
 
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