Soldato
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Feeling a 'little' bit love sick if thats the right word at the mo.
There is a girl at work, who causes me to go in to a state of emergency when ever I see her. To me she is really beautiful, but in that girl next door kind of way. Im a sucker, for a pretty face/eyes and hair and this girl makes me blush.
Do you understand what I mean when I say there are hot girls which every man fancies, and then there are girls which meet your individual tastes?
I can deal with the hot girls, but the ones I really like, make me flustered and uncomfortable.
We havent spoken much as she is from a different department to me, and we have only been working in the same building for the past 3 months now, so we havent spoken to each other much before.
But I saw her on the tube once on the way to work and it just so happened she sat next too me. So I thought Iv got to say something to her, or your going to kick your self. So I said hi, we chatted for about 30mins etc....
However being not a very confident guy in general around girls, I think she can sense my discomfort around her. I wish I could just relax around her, but I panic! Last week, I was caught of guard again and my first instinct was to run away! I could see on her face that she sensed something, I did stay and talk to her, but the whole time I needed to get out of there.
Was eating my lunch in the staff kitched today, and she walked in, and I couldnt help my self but turn bright red....
I think she knows Im shy and like her, so she does kind of talk to me know and then, rather than just ignore me... but I wish I could just relax...
Any one relate?
There is a girl at work, who causes me to go in to a state of emergency when ever I see her. To me she is really beautiful, but in that girl next door kind of way. Im a sucker, for a pretty face/eyes and hair and this girl makes me blush.
Do you understand what I mean when I say there are hot girls which every man fancies, and then there are girls which meet your individual tastes?
I can deal with the hot girls, but the ones I really like, make me flustered and uncomfortable.
We havent spoken much as she is from a different department to me, and we have only been working in the same building for the past 3 months now, so we havent spoken to each other much before.
But I saw her on the tube once on the way to work and it just so happened she sat next too me. So I thought Iv got to say something to her, or your going to kick your self. So I said hi, we chatted for about 30mins etc....
However being not a very confident guy in general around girls, I think she can sense my discomfort around her. I wish I could just relax around her, but I panic! Last week, I was caught of guard again and my first instinct was to run away! I could see on her face that she sensed something, I did stay and talk to her, but the whole time I needed to get out of there.
Was eating my lunch in the staff kitched today, and she walked in, and I couldnt help my self but turn bright red....
I think she knows Im shy and like her, so she does kind of talk to me know and then, rather than just ignore me... but I wish I could just relax...
Any one relate?
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. You might have to do all your talking out of work hours however 
I met enough varied people whilst young to not be lost for words with anybody even a fifty. 
Actually I've lost the plot. What exactly do you want? You don't want to marry her do you ?! 
