Ever get flusttered around certain girls?

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opethdisciple

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Feeling a 'little' bit love sick if thats the right word at the mo.

There is a girl at work, who causes me to go in to a state of emergency when ever I see her. To me she is really beautiful, but in that girl next door kind of way. Im a sucker, for a pretty face/eyes and hair and this girl makes me blush.

Do you understand what I mean when I say there are hot girls which every man fancies, and then there are girls which meet your individual tastes?

I can deal with the hot girls, but the ones I really like, make me flustered and uncomfortable.

We havent spoken much as she is from a different department to me, and we have only been working in the same building for the past 3 months now, so we havent spoken to each other much before.

But I saw her on the tube once on the way to work and it just so happened she sat next too me. So I thought Iv got to say something to her, or your going to kick your self. So I said hi, we chatted for about 30mins etc....

However being not a very confident guy in general around girls, I think she can sense my discomfort around her. I wish I could just relax around her, but I panic! Last week, I was caught of guard again and my first instinct was to run away! I could see on her face that she sensed something, I did stay and talk to her, but the whole time I needed to get out of there.

Was eating my lunch in the staff kitched today, and she walked in, and I couldnt help my self but turn bright red....

I think she knows Im shy and like her, so she does kind of talk to me know and then, rather than just ignore me... but I wish I could just relax...

Any one relate?
 
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SuperTronNarwhal said:
Try it, I mean i understand what your on about cause this **** happens all the time, but just lay back and think of her as more of your guy/normal friend rather than someone who you like.
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Yea I get what your saying. Treat them like guys, and just be matey!

It works on some girls granted, but generally they are the ones your not interested it. This girl makes me blush, and panic around her.
 
Subliminal Aura said:
Look at the end of the day - she has to also be interested in you. You can't force someone in to liking you.

1 - She knows you like her

2 - She knows you're shy

3 - What she's not expecting is for you to turn around and casually say that you'd like to bone her. If she's interested the pair of you are going to bang like rabbits.

:confused: Actually I've lost the plot. What exactly do you want? You don't want to marry her do you ?! :eek: :rolleyes:
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Just needed to say it.. for my own sanity.

Sitting here in my loft kind of suffereing from withdrawl symtopms... from being around girls.

Cant wait to go out tomorrow evening! Infact this is why I love going to work. Females!!
 
arctine said:
If it were me I'd try and ask her out. The worst thing that can happen is she says no.

If you come across as under confident then she may find it cute or even take pity on you.

Either way, if you get her to accompany you to a public house, you will be bringing alcohol into the equation andt your chances of reaching the ultimate pasty smashing goal will rocket.
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All in good time. I remeber asking another girl out a few years back at work. She said yes, but that she also had a bf. It spoilt the freindship we had, and every thing from then on was just awckward.

Cant let that happen again.
 
HamZilla said:
If you don't keep your compusure over the next few encounters, she will eventually tire of it and the best you will get to is the 'friend' zone.

Stop putting her on a pedestal and this will help you remain calm.
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Dude! You hit the nail on the head. All my life I put woman on pedestals.

Unfourtunatly its just how I roll. Sometimes, its actually charming and works in your favour.
 
Subliminal Aura said:
So OP, considering the wealth of OcUK knowledge and advice that has been provided....

" What's your next move going to be ? "
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Smash her:

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sehcure said:
Seriously had these very same problems with 'certain' girls and I found a solution.

Whenever I feel like that I just visualise in my head how small earth is in our star system, then in our galaxy, then about all of the other galaxies etc. Then I think of what that girl is compared to all that; expanding space, points of infinite density, etc.

Sounds odd but you (or well I at-least) think a lot less of them and it allows me to keep up my usual tranquil attitude.
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I get what your saying, but dont you run the risk of losing the spice of the molecular? The small is as beautiful as the large.
 
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