ex got married

Threepwood

Threepwood

Threepwood

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Aimlessly browseing facebook, when a mutual friend's photos of my ex's wedding came up, so I'm sad now, I thought she was the one for me, it was meant to be us, not them, but I guess if she and I were meant to be, then I'd never had the stroke, and lost her in the first place!
Still, she looks so happy, (genuinely happy in the photos) that I'm trying to feel happy about it too. If he can give her that, and all the things that I couldn't give her, then that is good, isn't it?! good on them.
I wasn't expecting that to come up so suddenly, without any warning..
.. I knew she had a fella, but still. I didn't fully realise that they were that serious, mores am I the fool.
 
I know due to circumstances you sit about doing nothing a lot and end up worrying about loads of things and it seems dwelling on the past. Try and spend some of your time not on social media but spend it learning things, Open Uni have some free courses online but there's also a broad spectrum of MIT stuff available free at MIT courses These might be interesting to you and help you develop yourself a bit rather than leading you into a spiral of despair mate. If you can operate this forum you can use the courses.
 
Doing this late at night isn't good for your mental health dude :(
Chin up, it wasn't meant to be, if you're happy for her, then leave it at that, it takes a bigger man to be happy for an ex, than being bitter. So more power to you.

It's time to focus on your own happiness :)

We're all here for banter to pick you up if you're feeling ****.
Keep your head up mate.
 
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It will be really good if you can genuinely be happy for her. It's hard.
And I understand saying "delete social media" is hard if you arent able to get out and about so easily.

But if you can delete it and focus on something growth based it would do wonders. Even gaming.

Hope you're OK.
 
This is the sort of moment the tells you to focus on yourself.

Dwell and you’ll get stuck in a hole.
Put in the effort to make changes and you’ll see improvements in every aspect of your life. It might take some time but it’ll be worth it. (I’m talking fitness, lifestyle, hobbies, counselling etc)

Wouldn’t it be great if she saw you in a years time looking and feeling great, with a gorgeous girl on your arm…
 
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Worry about things you can control and nothing else otherwise it's just a hiding to nothing but misery and resent.

(easier said than done of course)

Silly advice: Best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.
 
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