Ex smokers - any tips?

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In an ideal world cold turkey.
In my case was overtide and fed up of hearing myself saying "i need to quit".
I really did want to stop. Nasal spray worked great, now on lozenges 8 months later.
So still addicted to nicotine, though better health, no cough, no stink, and far cheaper.
 
taking nicotene (patches, gum, fake ciggies) to give up smoking (inhaling smoke to get nicotene) is like giving a heroin addict, heroin to come off heroin. It doesn't work and is a known scam by drugs companies to get money.

You don't take nicotene period! no gum, no patches etc...

:confused: The patches and gum don't give you anywhere near as much nicotine as the fags. What they do is help you just enough to crack the habit.
 
When I quit a couple of years ago I found the main thing that helped me was having a goal. I wanted to be fit for a cycling tour with my brother. I didn't end up going but I managed to quit.
 
:confused: The patches and gum don't give you anywhere near as much nicotine as the fags. What they do is help you just enough to crack the habit.

And they let you deal with the habitual part of your addiction before dealing with the psychological part. In theory, anyhow.
 
Allen Carr's The Easy Way to Stop Smoking worked a treat from my ex. It's basically a neat psychological trick, but you may find it works for you.

+1

You can read the book in a couple of days and afterwards you'll never look at smoking in the same way, even if you don't quit.

Worked for me after 15 years smoking. Had one slip up but read the book again and not been back since.
 
In the middle of quitting just now.

Keep having the odd one or two, well had two or three Saturday and the same Friday.

But apart from that during the week this time round I am finding it so much easier. I think because all of my mates here don't smoke, except when drinking, so its unsociable. Which lets be honest is the reason you started in the first place.

Have three fags sitting next to me, not even tempting.
 
Will power and (chinese) medicine balls to give my hands somethnig to do. And lots and lots of wrigleys and biros got chewed.
 
I'm going to sound smug, but i am just so glad i stopped.

I smoked at least 20 a day for 35 years.

i just didn't light up another one, haven't smoked since feb 28 2001.

Really tough for about 2 weeks, then becomes a LOT easier.

Just don't light another one and you are an ex smoker.
 
I smoked 10-20 a day for about 10 years, from what I remember I quit cold turkey, haven't gone back in 7 years. (bar about 10 random social fags in that time).

The most important thing for me was staying away from people who smoked in the early stages, because in all my previous attempts before that I would be around mates or partners who smoked and then end up going back to it. My last attempt I badgered my girlfriend to stop smoking as well otherwise I knew I wouldn't do it, well it worked.
 
I quit 8 years ago by reading Allens Cars book, less than a packet of fags now so worth ago.

By the end of the book you realise how you changed your life to accomodate smoking, shallow breathing, tied to having to remember fags / lighter / money to buy more fags etc.

I just never sparked another up after the last page of the book

However it does turn you into a seering anti smoker
 
Alan Carrs easy way, its a good book, will power is really not easy for a hard core smoker.

You need to remove the brainwashing when you are fully hooked that cigarettes give to you.... thats all it is.. the addiction is easy to get rid of, but if you dont take care of the brainwashing ie..

you need to smoke after meals because it tastes better,
with alcohol for the same reasons,
ill just smoke 1 today but wont smoke any more tomorrow

etc...


Its a really good book and helped me kick the habit of 5 years!
 
The book takes you back to when you first started smoking, how you coughed, had to force yourself to not cough and how you now shallow breath

There are very very few people who can say the enjoyed their first ciggarette so much they took it up as a hobby, the only argument Allen Car says is not worth fighting is peer pressure for teenagers
 
i started smoking again through stupidity, but when i stopped the first time (for 4 years) i just went cold turkey, this time though i just cant seem to do it, no matter what, people who don't smoke dont seem to understand how excrutiating stopping actually is.
 
I quit 8 years ago by reading Allens Cars book, less than a packet of fags now so worth ago.

By the end of the book you realise how you changed your life to accomodate smoking, shallow breathing, tied to having to remember fags / lighter / money to buy more fags etc.

I just never sparked another up after the last page of the book

However it does turn you into a seering anti smoker

+1 for the book - it really does work.

Have a read how I did it here http://www.fidgetwith.com/2010/04/25/how-i-quit-smoking-for-good/
 
I'm pretty sure Zyban is no longer prescribed.

Other stuff is, though. A coworker of mine just got something prescribed. It sounds like a brand of dog food. Champion, Champy, something like that.

Suggestions for the OP:

i) Stop thinking of it as quitting. That sets you up for failure from the start, because you're labelling your goal as failure. Maybe worse than failure - quitting can mean you didn't even really try. If stopping smoking is quitting, then smoking is success. You're getting your labelling completely the wrong way around. If your goal is to stop smoking, then it's smoking that is quitting. Yes, it's just psychological and it might sound silly, but the main addiction is psychological so it isn't really silly at all.

ii) Yes, the main addiction is psychological. The physical addiction lasts only a few days. Bear that in mind if you go cold turkey and suffer withdrawal symptoms - it won't last long. Just a few days. Hang on for a couple of days and that part of the addiction will be done with.

iii) Distract yourself, especially if you associate smoking with something else. If so, make yourself start a different association. Maybe, for example, you always smoke after eating. Instead, make a habit of doing something else after eating. Anything else, doesn't matter. The point is to overwrite one habit with another. "Habit" sounds like such an innocuous thing, but habit is surprisingly strong. Perhaps "psychological addiction" would be a better term. Drinking is a particularly big problem for this - alcohol chemically suppresses your will as well, so you get a double whammy. If you do associate drinking and smoking it might be worthwhile not going out drinking at all for the first couple of weeks.

iv) Show me the money! :) Actually, show yourself the money. Work out how much you spend on smoking and how much of your life you are spending working just to pay for it. It'll be more than you think. This will help bring it into perspective:

http://www.moneysavingexpert.com/protect/demotivator/

Put the money into something. A bank account, a big jar in your front room, whatever. Watch it accumulate and spend it on something fun. For example, a coworker of mine went on a nice holiday for 2 weeks. You could easily be spending £2000 a year on smoking. That's a fair chunk of fun money. Fancy a new high-end PC every 6 months? Would you like a 42" HDTV?

v) Work with people who have been smoking for years and are older. Watch the pathetic, stinking druggies struggle to get enough air to climb a flight of stairs. Then hear about their funeral. It'll put you right off. We're not talking about small stuff here.
 
I'm about 8 days into my second attempt to quit (my last attempt was a couple of years ago and lasted for 18 months). Put simply; if you want to quit, just quit. Anything else is fluff.
 
I stopped a few times because other people (mostly family) wanted me to stop. Never lasted more than 2 months.

Then I just decided one day it was a waste of money and bad for my health and I just stopped. Never used anything as a replacement. I've now been off smoking for 4years after about 15years of smoking.
 
You have to be in the right frame of mind to do it and change the way you think about smoking.

Make a date for yourself and stick to it.
Make sure you have something to look forward to as a goal.
Nicotine Gum and tabacco free cigs from a popular health food shop

Both the boyfriend and I did it together but separately. He started a few weeks before me, stepping it might be better as you are both not stressed at the same time. I kept the smoking to a minmum and made sure I didn't smell of it when I went to see him.

We used the gum and tabacco free smokes, for me smoking was timed subconsciuosly 8am, 10am, 12.30pm, 2pm, 4.30pm and a couple in the night between 7pm and 10pm it might be the same for you have a think. So 15 mins before each smoke I started to chew the gum fresh peice each time even if it lead to you spitting one out to replace it immediatley PLEASE READ THE PACKAGING BEFORE DOING THIS EACH TYPE OF GUM IS DIFFERENT if I really needed to curb the motion put it off as far as I physically could to change my timing and use a tabacco free one.

After a while I forgot about the ciggie, the gum was chewed less and only on stressy bits of the day. Then alternatively swap a gum for normal chewing gum.

The BF only used tabacco free smokes and sugar free mints

I quit 4th January and still smoke free.

I changed the way I thought about each craving - I want one but I don't need it

For the missus: have you something you really want to buy that's really indulgent and not something you would go for normally because it is so expensive? see below quoted from a previous post I did but add £1 to the equation, you''l understand once you've read it :)

I find that having a motivation helpful. Girls will identify with this. My motivation is a pair of boots I have been eyeing up for ages, they cost £180.00... here comes the calculation.

Where I live an average pack of 20 cost £5.20 so
£180 / £5.20 = 35 packs (round up to next whole number)
I smoked 3 packs A WEEK so
35packs / 3 = 12weeks, I can afford those boots with the money I would spend on smokes in 12 weeks

Guys, replace the boots with a new graphic card or ipod etc something less than £200 so it's easier to aim for.

Go on, give it a try with your thing you want and how many you DID smoke!

I know, you'll be saying use the credit card etc. but it's not the point.

It's sound so shallow doesn't it? I should be saying I've quit for my health but it works for me and it might work for you if you're at your wits end.

Good Luck
 
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