I think the executor has what our US friends call 'The power of attorney'. The system is 'One person gets appointed to basically choose what goes down' - although if anyone really hates what the executor does he can theoretically be taken to court over his decisions.
Unless somebody can tell me otherwise, I'm pretty sure that personal chattels are simply part of the residuary estate and are entitled to go (if there is no surviving spouse):
1) to the issue (line of descendants), but if none,
2) to the parents equally, but if none,
3) brothers and sisters on the whole blood, but if none.... etc
Thus it wouldn't be up to you to decide who gets the possessions, it would be up to whoever is entitled to them.
It may well be this isn't the case and I'm missing something, but I can't find anything that says otherwise and nobody on the forum seems to have said otherwise with any authority. I have never heard of an executor having 'willy nilly' discretion when there isn't a will / express trust ....
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