forget playing it that way...download FOSE and FOMM and configure your game using these...its so much better
here is what i am using with FOSE and FOMM including all DLC!
with these mods my game is so much harder as it should be and very well balanced...the wasteland is and should be a dangerous place and items should be rare...with these mods i have disabled all the assistance that you get with vanilla.im only on level 13 and i have over 130hrs of play,slower leveleing is better and more balanced as you get to see more of the game before you hit the level cap
Fallout3.esm
ThePitt.esm
Anchorage.esm
BrokenSteel.esm
PointLookout.esm
CRAFT.esm
CALIBR.esm
****.esm
Mart's Mutant Mod.esm
Enhanced Weather - Rain and Snow.esm
EnclaveCommander-OA-Pitt-Steel.esm
Mole Rat Maze.esp
Meet the Devs.ESP
xrepair-custom-only.esp
xrepair-scrap-only.esp
Unofficial Fallout 3 Patch.esp
CALIBRxMerchant.esp
Unofficial Fallout 3 Patch - Operation Anchorage.esp
Unofficial Fallout 3 Patch - The Pitt.esp
****.esp
**** - Anchorage.esp
**** - The Pitt.esp
**** - Anchorage hotfix.esp
**** - Strength Requirements for Miniguns, Gatlings, 20mm Flak.esp
Mart's Mutant Mod - XFO (not ****).esp
XFO_barter_fix_harder.esp
XFO_Cripple_fixes.esp
XFO_Degradation_fixes.esp
XFO_food_water_changes.esp
XFO_Gore_fixes.esp
XFO_Immersion_Necessities.esp
XFO_Karma_changes.esp
XFO_misc_tweaks.esp
XFO_Pacing_Extra_Levels.esp
XFO_Pacing_Epic.esp
XFO_Perk_Flaws.esp
XFO_Perk_paths.esp
XFO_Perk_rebalance.esp
XFO_Playstyles.esp
XFO_Radiation_changes.esp
XFO_rarity_ammo_high_FOOK.esp
XFO_rarity_drugs_high.esp
XFO_Sneak_Rebalance_mild.esp
XFO_Speed_increase.esp
XFO_SPECIAL_DnD.esp
XFO_SP_Fix2_(SP10_TAGx2_INTxHalf).esp
XFO_Stat_changes.esp
XFO_Timescale_med.esp
XFO_VATSdmg_75.esp
XFO_Weapon_Jamming.esp
XFO_Weapskill_dmg_and_accuracy_med_FOOK.esp
10-Year-Respawn.esp
KillableKidsNormalHealthOptional.esp
Wasteland Mercs 2.0 - no child left behind edition.esp
WastelandMastery.esp
vaultquest1.0.esp
ClassicEnclaveAPA-Better-APA-english.esp
DK_BulletTime.esp
CC.esp
Fellout-Anchorage.esp
Fellout-BrokenSteel.esp
Fellout-Full.esp
Fellout-pipboylight.esp
Mighty Mouse Alternative 4.esp
RRR+ANCH 1.0.esp
noautoaim.esp
NoTracers.esp
WeightRebalance.esp
Mart's Mutant Mod - Broken Steel.esp
Treasure Maps_Secrets of the Wasteland.esp
Mart's Mutant Mod - ****.esp
CRAFT - Activation Perk.esp
Stealthboy Recon Armor - CRAFT.esp
DarNifiedUIF3.esp
richvendors.esp
Mart's Mutant Mod - XFO + ****.esp
WeaponModKits.esp
Treasure Maps_A Fist Full of Caps.esp
WeaponModKits - ****.esp
Location 1 (Megaton-V101).esp
Vault 89 (player home) V1-26.esp
UPP - Pack 1.esp
UPP - Quest Perks.esp
UPP - Beverage Perks.esp
UPP - Pack 2.esp
UPP - Experience Perks.esp
Project Beauty.esp
RobCo Certified.esp
firelance-quest.esp
RobCo Universal Battery Charger Kit.esp
ALIEN INVASION 2.esp
ALIEN INVASION.esp
Ammo_Dispenser.esp
JSF v.1.esp
Delaida.esp
BetterHeadshots.esp
Death Canyon v3.esp
GalaxyNewsRadioFix
.esp
telescope_quest_fdt.esp
Treasure Maps_Underground.esp
TheMissingScientist1_V1.21.esp
NecronomiconExMortis 5.5.esp
MX_Vault74fix.esp
MX_Vault74_eng.esp
wtbOxfordPonds.esp
DTOMRC3.esp
CALIBR Ammo Schematics - CRAFT.esp
Echo_BatteryCharger.esp
KORsVaultHome.esp
Existence2.0.esp
Trouble.esp
TroubleCheat.esp
NightvisionGoggles(Powered).esp
Old Military Bunker 1.4.esp
ShellRain.esp
japanese_menace.esp
Krigos2SVD.esp
My_Megaton_House.esp
MoreMapMarkers.esp
MaxLevelWorkaround-HP.esp
MaxLevelWorkaround.esp
merc.esp
The Car Fort With Quests.esp
Pirata.esp
jmschematics.esp
Ammo_Schematics.esp
Trophies - Megaton.esp
Treasure Maps_Bobblehead Edition.esp
Enhanced Weather - Rain and Snow in Fallout.esp
Enhanced Weather - Radioactive Rain Plugin.esp
Enhanced Weather - Rainbows.esp
VATSFixOff.esp
NecronomiconExMortis.esp
FalloutShelterSpringvale.esp
CrossRepairArmor.esp
AnchoRepair.esp
BSteelRepair.esp
PittRepair.esp
Mart's Mutant Mod.esp
Mart's Mutant Mod - Increased Increased Spawns.esp
Mart's Mutant Mod - Hunting & Looting.esp
Mart's Mutant Mod - Natural Selection.esp
Mart's Mutant Mod - No Corpse Flies.esp
Mart's Mutant Mod - Tougher Traders.esp
Total active plugins: 144
Total plugins: 165
go here for mods
http://www.fallout3nexus.com/