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It was enough for the OP to ask for the thread to be closed, and the text-speak was consistent with the glimpses of her emails/texts. Plus the scrubbed pictures... let me have this hilarious turn of events!
The image had to be legit then to cause that sort of reaction. I dont doubt that some one who knows the op maybe got an image of his FB and stuck it on here to freak him out.
Thought though...he mentioned that he posted on here cause he didnt want to talk to his F&F...so how did she find out about the thread unless there was a mole? Or she knew his forum username and googled it?