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Yeah, just let it go. since you said You have been on and off over the years she might want to get back together later...but I really wouldn't hold out for it. And I'm sure you'll be thinking she'll come back.

Even if she does, you should just tell her to get lost, you don't sound emotionally mature enough to be in a relationship. And for some reason I don't think she is either.

Just let this one go, I know it's a bit long-term but you have a lot ahead of you, just learn to enjoy whats ahead and not live in the past. :-D
 
Oh btw, when Dawn and I split up, everyone said Get Over It etc etc, its not helpful, ignore them.

But you do need to put it to the back of your mind and start enjoying yourself. Someone who is moping around is not attractive.
 
I think everyones being a little hard on you to be honest, it is perfectly natural to wanna beat the crap out of someone being intimate with someone you have strong feelings for. Jealousy and drink don't mix well as I'm sure a lot of men on here can vouch for if they are honest. A lot of us will have been in the same situation and on a personal note I can tell you that I once made a total fool out of myself on a night out similar to yours. Luckily I was that bladdered that I hurt myself more than anyone else. I almost tore my mothers house around me when I got home too. I wanted to die the next day I was so ashamed at how I behaved.

Having said that a lot of girls like a bad guy and would probably find you attractive after seeing you all angry and aggresive. It's a sad remenent of an earlier age that women still have a deep down instinct to be with the Alpha male. After my experience I definately had more female attention but I still wish it never happened. I'm much much older now and I know I would never react the same way again, or at least I hope so. As people have said-move on, keep your self respect and don't lower yourself to violence.
 
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