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Right heres my turn now!

Ive been with my girlfriend for nearly a year.. and at the start everything was great we spent a lot of time together but last 6 months she goes though of stages of splitting up with me... I spent a fortune taking her on holiday this year and we did have a good time but after we got back she said I dont think its right.. no reason what so ever.. she said its the way I acted on holiday but I had a few drinks and I werent drunk and then said shes going home and started packing up her stuff! so after me telling her to calm down.. everything was fine we enjoyed reast of the holiday until we got back next day she finished with me.

I always go running back and beg how it will be different.. but i dont know what to do wrong we have split up a few times after that just silly little things because I have been busy working and cant see her.. she does it again or If ive been delayed because I cant pick her up from work.

gave her the most amazing birthday too spa day in a posh hotel I would always try and be there for her but she continued to be paranoid with me.
she wanted me to not see any of my friends and spent every minute with her.

until recently It has been fine again.... we get outselves ready for xmas I go pay to go for a meal at a pub and I have spent a fortune on some amazing presents on her.. she even made the hint of wanting to get engaged and move in start of next year so I even got her a ring she wanted.
Its hard work but on sunday she broke up with me again and said thats it I dont feel anything for you anymore dont speak to me ever again.
I tried texting ringing and no answer , I wnated to go round but she had a 6 year old and didnt want to put anything on her she threatened to even get the police if I continued to phone her. I just wanted to talk about it all and why has this happend. she said some horrible things to me. I have not done anything wrong for the way she acted like this!

Its been 2 days now and I have not contacted her, its so hard because I just want to talk to her... what do you recon I do? try and find out what is going on or just ignore her and see if she comes back to me?
 
lol some of them I can take back... shes hard work and I do really think she has issues.
It was nice when we were together but its liked she wanted to break up and argue with me all the time for no reason. We were even trying for a baby too.. All I want to know now is why she has done it? ill go nuts of shes with someone else.. she always had freaks messaging her when I was with her that I told her to stop it or im leaving her.. I even told them myself. its hard not knowing whats going on..

She said she werent interested in money I just done nice things for her and made her happy but nothing was even enough.
she said I made no effort but I was always there I took her for her kid all the time and took her to work there was maybe a few times I didnt want to do something with her but its the way she was acting with me I would just rather go out with my friends and get drunk!
 
I never did throw a lot of money just took her on holiday and gave her a nice birthday.
well yeah she does act like a 17 year old relationship im 24 and shes 30.
 
yep i think she wants me to keep phoning her and texting her she she can ignore it, now im not she wont like that!
as we say plenty more fish in the sea.. ill try and find some princess.. working as a full time DJ in nightclubs and bars it shouldnt be too hard ha
 
yeah she wanted me to stop seeing my friends as she said they were stupid and pathetic ?? even though they were just male!
Just didnt understand her that well.. I always wanted to take her our places and do things but she would rather sit in with a takeaway and go to bed early!
 
Ha Ha Classic.... at the Pic

Sorry to here your troubles, sound as if she aint right for you sounds like you both want different things........
relationships are about compermise, I'd leave her alone for a few more days and then drop on her doorstep Xmas morning with a gift and flowers -
If she turns you away just leave them with her and say at least have the gifts.....

I dont think I am even going to do that... she lives in a flat so I cant just knock at the door lol. im just going to leave her alone and let her be unhappy by herself
 
Thanks for the advice :)
We had plenty of fun times together and I made her feel very special but I suppose that just werent enough... she told me that she wanted a fairytale relationship..
I really did want to settle down and I just wanted to be happy but I still wanted to see my friends.
 
lol pathetic some of these comments! oh come on if you love something your not just going to let it go straight away!
Let her be unhappy and upset because Ive got to that stage I am just not bothered!
 
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