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R0Z4G

R0Z4G

R0Z4G

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Right heres my turn now!

Ive been with my girlfriend for nearly a year.. and at the start everything was great we spent a lot of time together but last 6 months she goes though of stages of splitting up with me... I spent a fortune taking her on holiday this year and we did have a good time but after we got back she said I dont think its right.. no reason what so ever.. she said its the way I acted on holiday but I had a few drinks and I werent drunk and then said shes going home and started packing up her stuff! so after me telling her to calm down.. everything was fine we enjoyed reast of the holiday until we got back next day she finished with me.

I always go running back and beg how it will be different.. but i dont know what to do wrong we have split up a few times after that just silly little things because I have been busy working and cant see her.. she does it again or If ive been delayed because I cant pick her up from work.

gave her the most amazing birthday too spa day in a posh hotel I would always try and be there for her but she continued to be paranoid with me.
she wanted me to not see any of my friends and spent every minute with her.

until recently It has been fine again.... we get outselves ready for xmas I go pay to go for a meal at a pub and I have spent a fortune on some amazing presents on her.. she even made the hint of wanting to get engaged and move in start of next year so I even got her a ring she wanted.
Its hard work but on sunday she broke up with me again and said thats it I dont feel anything for you anymore dont speak to me ever again.
I tried texting ringing and no answer , I wnated to go round but she had a 6 year old and didnt want to put anything on her she threatened to even get the police if I continued to phone her. I just wanted to talk about it all and why has this happend. she said some horrible things to me. I have not done anything wrong for the way she acted like this!

Its been 2 days now and I have not contacted her, its so hard because I just want to talk to her... what do you recon I do? try and find out what is going on or just ignore her and see if she comes back to me?
 
you seem to expect her to like you for the money you spend and not much else.

ask her why ?
 
Play it cool. Don't go pulling out all the stops to get in touch and / or get back together, you'll only suffer for it later. One person should not dictate your life to you and it sounds as though she has some issues, not you.
 
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R0Z4G said:
what do you recon I do?
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Well if you're recon, I'll go Engineer. Make sure you spot everything you can, use your MAV. Try and tell me where any armour units are and I'll stick some mines down in the usual choke points. Hopefully I can take out any tanks from the rear, but I'll hopefully have you in a crows nest popping some sniper rounds off at the enemy infantry.

I'm normally quite good at Battlefield, so I think if we stick together we'll do quite well.
 
So she's very needy, you spend fortunes on her and that is not enough, she dumped you many times by now and by the sound of it she's got issues which she has to sort out before she can hope for a long and stable relationship.

As was mentioned only you know the full story but by the sound of it you will be better off closing that door in your life.
 
lol some of them I can take back... shes hard work and I do really think she has issues.
It was nice when we were together but its liked she wanted to break up and argue with me all the time for no reason. We were even trying for a baby too.. All I want to know now is why she has done it? ill go nuts of shes with someone else.. she always had freaks messaging her when I was with her that I told her to stop it or im leaving her.. I even told them myself. its hard not knowing whats going on..

She said she werent interested in money I just done nice things for her and made her happy but nothing was even enough.
she said I made no effort but I was always there I took her for her kid all the time and took her to work there was maybe a few times I didnt want to do something with her but its the way she was acting with me I would just rather go out with my friends and get drunk!
 
I'm not being funny, but these relationships where its on and off, you're dumped one week, back together the next, are never going to last are they?

I mean seriously? This is like 16-17 year old stuff. She stops you seeing you're mates, so eventually they will have enough of you. Where is this even going? Can you imagine being together in 30 years? If not why even bother, go out and have some fun.

I made the classic mistake of getting a girlfriend at 16 for 4 years. Worst thing I ever did. She was a bit looney and it would be on and off. It was never going to last and I saw no future there but it was just a routine thing.

Seriously, go meet up with your mates thats shes stopped you seeing and have a damn good christmas and new year. If you get back together, will no doubt be something you look back on in the future and regreat hugely.
 
MoNkeE said:
Well if you're recon, I'll go Engineer. Make sure you spot everything you can, use your MAV. Try and tell me where any armour units are and I'll stick some mines down in the usual choke points. Hopefully I can take out any tanks from the rear, but I'll hopefully have you in a crows nest popping some sniper rounds off at the enemy infantry.

I'm normally quite good at Battlefield, so I think if we stick together we'll do quite well.
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Tea in keyboard, thanks!!! :D
 
Stop throwing money at the problem, it's not the answer to the problems in your relationship.

It's hard breaking up but from the sounds of it you'd be better off keeping away, it's not been working out has it? Time is a healer, don't go running back if she comes knocking.
 
I never did throw a lot of money just took her on holiday and gave her a nice birthday.
well yeah she does act like a 17 year old relationship im 24 and shes 30.
 
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