Girl trouble

Aruffell · 16 Sep 2006 at 15:41

Right guys, need a bit of help here.

A girl called laura was with a guy called simon, and was cheating on him with me lol. Yes i know it's not good. It'll probably come back and kick me up the bum i know.

She went on holiday and I met a girl called jennie who I started to like, only problem is that she's quite immature. Laura came back and broke up with her boyfriend, problem was me n jennie kept gettin closer tho, but I couldn't really see a relationship happening out of it. Laura asked me out the other day and I said yes.

Problem is that i haven't told jennie anything yet because i don't know what to say to her to break off whatever we had going on.

I've waited 3 months to be with Laura and i can't let it all go now, as i have to follow my heart. I still want to be friends with Jennie but i don't want to say i met someone else because that will crush her.

As i said, I know it will probably blow up in my face but I have to follow my heart and give it a go, so please don't tell me all this as I know it all already.

Any ideas guys and girls?

Thanks,

Andy

RandomTom · 16 Sep 2006 at 15:41

please don't use black font or comic sans. then i will read it.

Aruffell · 16 Sep 2006 at 15:42

RandomTom said:
please don't use black font or comic sans. then i will read it.

Copied partially from msn, sorry.

Andy

Beans on toast Dave · 16 Sep 2006 at 15:43

my god thats hard to read

yer_averagejoe · 16 Sep 2006 at 15:43

Aruffell said:
A girl called laura was with a girl called simon, and was cheating on him with me lol.

Frankly you don't deserve to be saved.

Aruffell · 16 Sep 2006 at 15:44

yer_averagejoe said:
Frankly you don't deserve to be saved.

Thank you for reading the post thoroughly

Have a medal.

Andy

mc_bob · 16 Sep 2006 at 15:44

I got confused after the first sentence. Sorry, cant help unless you rewrite it lol.

mks2005 · 16 Sep 2006 at 15:45

I don't have an answer to your problem, but the whole 'girl problem' theme, comic sans font and general wording of the predicament made me laugh.

Azza · 16 Sep 2006 at 15:45

yer_averagejoe said:
Frankly you don't deserve to be saved.

Yeah i think that first bit is abit wrong, if it isnt this is very disturbing.

yer_averagejoe · 16 Sep 2006 at 15:45

Aruffell said:
Thank you for reading the post thoroughly

Have a medal.

Andy

I did, I'm just saying I hope it does blow up in your face.

RandomTom · 16 Sep 2006 at 15:47

Aruffell said:
Copied partially from msn, sorry.

Andy

Hey, it's alright I can read it now. can't you tell Jennie that you're really busy at work and you wouldn't have time for a relationship which wouldn't be nice for her but that you'll try to see her when you can?

Aruffell · 16 Sep 2006 at 15:47

yer_averagejoe said:
I did, I'm just saying I hope it does blow up in your face.

Thanks, good to know you always see the best in people, clearly you don't know the whole story so i don't believe you can judge me for it

Good day sir.

Andy

mc_bob · 16 Sep 2006 at 15:48

Just tell the Jennie girl. There isn't a lie that will match up to the truth.

Just get it over with and tell her you woman

cleanbluesky · 16 Sep 2006 at 15:48

Predicts flamefest.

I think the solution is for you to stop concentrating on these girls until you have experienced what you need to in order to make you an honest and decent person.
Once you have done this, you will likely have no more problems with similar situations in future due to not being so dishonest.

I wish you every luck with your endeavors.

DB_SamX · 16 Sep 2006 at 15:48

I know that I haven't got anything constructive and shouldn't post but I can't help myself from saying that none of them deserve you, messing around with them. I'm sorry.

mc_bob · 16 Sep 2006 at 15:49

DB_SamX said:
I know that I haven't got anything constructive and shouldn't post but I can't help myself from saying that none of them deserve you, messing around with them. I'm sorry.

He hasnt messed around with anyone lol.
From what I read he wasn't "with" Jen anyway. They just liked eachother.

yer_averagejoe · 16 Sep 2006 at 15:49

Aruffell said:
Good day sir.

Good day

at least you have manners. Good luck with this Laura who you can so obviously trust

atpbx · 16 Sep 2006 at 15:50

Go with the one you really want, if laura is the girl, then go for her.

Yas786 · 16 Sep 2006 at 15:51

Hmmm another girl thread??? :eek:

Can i just ask or say something but can you not figure this out for yourself?? rather than coming here and making yourself look like a fool because you cant solve your own problem out....interesting to say the least.

Heres some advice though, not that you will take it im sure but seeing as i have a few mins to kill...i'll say this..u want to be with this lass called laura but dont want to be with Jenni. So why not be a man and say to Jenni that look ive found someone else so id just rather be friends??. Unless your a greedy git and want your cake and eat it at the same time??.
Yeh you might hurt her by saying that you dont want a relationship wtih her but at least you will feel better for telling her the truth rather than being an immature git who hasnt got an ounce of honesty within him....your choice fella.

EDIT: Dont take my post as a flame bud, im just saying how i see it...probably more to it than what you have posted but then i can only go on with what you just posted.

me227 · 16 Sep 2006 at 15:53

Why'd your girl stay with the guy for so long while cheating on him with you? I take it you got the crap reply of "oh I still love him, but your so wonderful."

She has basically wasted your time for 3 months. Forget about her, do you mind all that much about breaking her heart as shes stringed you along, plus i'm sure she'll get over it.