Girlfriend finds other guy more attractive.

[Old Wino]

..

 

[Jono8]

Did she honestly say that??

If so...its over man.

 

[Azza]

*insert generic Misc response*

 

[Tibbz2]

'That's Ok babe, there's a new girl who just started at work, single but OMG so hot. Like in front of Scarlett, Mila and even Nigella on my list and we've had lunch together the past few days. She's way hotter than you, but it's OK, I'm with you, not her'

+1

 

[mraerosmith1981]

It's time to make a sharp exit then bud

 

[arknor]

tell the new "friend" shes a **** and you have just had a lucky escape at the clinic but you love her so youll stay with her anyway.

he might lose interest

i would just GTFO out, no time in my life for people always looking for the next one

 

[paradisiac]

tell the new "friend" shes a **** and you have just had a lucky escape at the clinic but you love her so youll stay with her anyway.

he might lose interest

if she is looking elsewhere now, she will keep looking. its time to move on, as hard as it can be.

 

[dannyjo22]

ha ha. This is the best answer. Would love to see her facial response.

I'm the other guy from her dreams, I can show you videos of her facial response

What a doormat. Game over man game over, but at least try to destroy her self esteem and self confidence first

 

[exhashdotdot]

Sounds like she doesn't respect you chief.

 

[mad4jags]

I'd rent her out.....make a bit on the side.

 

[Janesy B]

Don't walk, run.

 

[Edrof]

She sounds pretty honest to me. Would she really tell him about this 'dream guy' if she wanted to start a relationship with him? Surely she'd keep it on the QT.

 

[Nigel014]

She sounds pretty honest to me. Would she really tell him about this 'dream guy' if she wanted to start a relationship with him? Surely she'd keep it on the QT.

Are you saying she's told him so she can get out of the relationship.. or?

 

[arctine]

Every relationship that I have been in has involved getting strong attractions for other girls. I have no doubt that it works both ways either.

It's natural and what's more, she's told you about it. I don't think you have anything to worry about tbh.

Surely you've been attracted to other people too?

 

[ChrisJSY]

Every relationship that I have been in has involved getting strong attractions for other girls. I have no doubt that it works both ways either.

It's natural and what's more, she's told you about it. I don't think you have anything to worry about tbh.

Surely you've been attracted to other people too?

It's natural to think it as you say, it's fine. However it does no good saying it out loud to your partner, it's harmful.

I think you'd have to be naive to think you have nothing to worry about.

 

[sigma]

Tell her that you saw him first!

 

[Guru]

I know a plastic surgeon that can make you look just like him.... Win win?

 

[mmj_uk]

I would get rid next thing you know she'll be telling you that they're both sex buddies but that she still loves you, are you wealthier than the other guy by any chance? if so she's probably just with you for the convenience/money.

It's one thing finding someone more attractive than your partner but quite another telling them what she has told you.

 

[arctine]

It's natural to think it as you say, it's fine. However it does no good saying it out loud to your partner, it's harmful.

I think you'd have to be naive to think you have nothing to worry about.

Surely sharing these thoughts with her partner is only backing up her lack of intention to act on them?

There's more than one way of looking at it, tbh. If it was me, I'd give her a chance and presume she's just being honest. If she did do more than just think about this guy, I'd leave her. If not, no harm done IMO.

 

[Brookert]

(awaits the return of the op)