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Somebody on here has tried to be clever and put me down by calling me Dimple.
I actually like it and if a passing mod can change my username I'd be grateful.

he wasnt putting you down he was kidding mate lighten up, whats the problem. go smash one out.
 
This is what really grinds my teeth with this forum because some people read the first post.
Nobody has mentioned the fact that I retracted it here : http://forums.overclockers.co.uk/showpost.php?p=11725126&postcount=49 and then I went on to defend him here : http://forums.overclockers.co.uk/showpost.php?p=11725860&postcount=66.
In fact not even the OP acknowledged it.

Come on, you know how fast threads get replied to, people cannot and will not respond to everything, especially after they have seen the initial posts which they do not like from a poster.

as for your name comment, if i was to say your username fast it would be 'dimple' :]
 
This is what really grinds my teeth with this forum because some people read the first post.

In fact not even the OP acknowledged it.
The way his original post came over was just a fear, a little later he explained how he felt and I acknowledged that it was a phobia.
I have had a lot of experience with my own daughter and it gets to me when people have a fear and say they have a phobia.
When you have a phobia it becomes an illness and I misinterpreted the OPs post but made amends BUT NOBODY READ THE AMENDS.

Of course I don't read the amends. I've not got all day. If you need to make amends then you shouldn't post such bold statements in the original post if they could be wrong and regardless of the OPs later contribution was still wrong. It also then becomes insensitive and offensive if people are that way inclined to find things insensitive or offensive in their situation.
 
dmpoole reminds me of Tommy Saxondale :D

Coincidence or what?
I've never watched it but it was mentioned to me today.
I was doing a couple of courses and one was about CV writing which I need to be able to pass onto students.
The lecturer asked us about our outside hobbies and I declined to tell her because believe it or not I even have close friends that don't know what I get up to.
At that point one bloke turned round and said 'Its Tommy Saxondale, I know where I know you from now'.
Another woman turned round and said 'Bloody hell, you look so different in a shirt & tie, I know who you are now'.
 
How can I be right because I experienced Led Zeppelin? Thats silly.
What makes you think I know all about Mental Asylums?
have I said I'm an expert on them or are you making assumptions?
I can honestly say that I am one person who is definitely not cemented in their opinions and I change my mind all the time on here.



Read above.
Why didn't you quote the other 2 posts where I then backed him up?
I know, cause its an internet forum.

Good Lord above. You just don't listen. THE WAY IN WHICH YOU WRITE YOUR POSTS IMPLIES THAT YOU ARE THE AUTHORITY. YOU BACK IT UP WITH THE ARGUEMENT 'I'VE BEEN THERE/DONE IT SO I KNOW ALRIGHT!?. There it is, in a nutshell.

Example regarding Zeppelin (which seems to be a bit of a hangup)

Poster A; I liked LZ in their tour in 1978
dmpoole; You're wrong they were better in 1979, I know because I was there

Dimple isn't a put down. I think it's actually quite affectionate, but it wasn't me that coined it.

If you're going to start a thread where people have their say, you can't be surprised when people actually do what you have asked. You're not a bad guy, and nobody hates you, but you seem to get on people's nerves. I was simply advising as to why I think that is, my opinion, but you have shot me down with, well, guess what; an authoritarian style post, implying that my views are stupid and ill-founded.
 
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I dont know how old you are or what you are into or anything about you, but from the few things ive seen you write on here... I dunno I just get a bad vibe, like as if I wouldnt enjoy your company, sorry
 
Poster A; I liked LZ in their tour in 1978
dmpoole; You're wrong they were better in 1979, I know because I was there

Dimple isn't a put down. I think it's actually quite affectionate, but it wasn't me that coined it.

I'm sorry but you're going have to backup crap like that.
I've never posted anything like it - EVER.

My style is :
Poster A : I liked LZ in their tour in 1978
dmpoole : I didn't see them in 1978 but I saw them in 1971, twice in 1975 and once in 1979.

Heres an example of my style : http://forums.overclockers.co.uk/showthread.php?t=17875548
Now if that offends you then its your problem not mine.

I quite like Dimple, I've just used it has a name on another forum and I'd like it here too Mods - please.
 
I'm sorry but you're going have to backup crap like that.
I've never posted anything like it - EVER.

My style is :
Poster A : I liked LZ in their tour in 1978
dmpoole : I didn't see them in 1978 but I saw them in 1971, twice in 1975 and once in 1979.

Heres an example of my style : http://forums.overclockers.co.uk/showthread.php?t=17875548
Now if that offends you then its your problem not mine.

I quite like Dimple, I've just used it has a name on another forum and I'd like it here too Mods - please.

So if if its there problem, why do you care what others think "Dimple"
 
I've never felt intimidated on this forum :/
You have power here. A lot of the user base here are about as friendly as a prison cell. Since one cannot use insults (something I am thankful for) people try to use sarcasm and generally try to make you feel like you're a waste of space. I know it happens everywhere else more but that doesn't make it right nor good.
 
You have no idea of your Metallica history do you?
Mind you, you weren't even born.

Originally Posted by dmpoole
You had to be there.

Apologies Damien but I don't think you have a clue what their old style was.
This track was played by an orchestra on S&M and this new album could well be the first Metallica album I don't buy.

Posts like this undermine people's opinions on things. You imply authority because you were there. Well guess what, 'being there' doesn't mean you know it all.

Not sure why I'm getting involved with this. I have no issue, but I'm just trying to answer your question. Turns out it's everybody else is in the wrong, not you.
 
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Also,

I had an incident when I first joined the forums where (and I can't believe I posted this) I told somebody that their view didn't count because of their age.
I still feel awful about it and some people still use it against me.

That's from this very thread. You may not explicitly state that peoples' opinions don't count, but it's implied and everybody can see through you. This is why people get annoyed.
 
That's from this very thread. You may not explicitly state that peoples' opinions don't count, but it's implied and everybody can see through you. This is why people get annoyed.

I used somebody's age against them once and I think it was Rich.
I still feel embarassed about it.
Why are you still bringing it up when it happened about 5 years ago?
 
I used somebody's age against them once and I think it was Rich.
I still feel embarassed about it.
Why are you still bringing it up when it happened about 5 years ago?

Uhm, you were the one that bought it up in this thread? I'm merely commenting on what you have mentioned. Also, if you see the quotes that I posted, saying 'Mind you, you weren't even born' is, to me, tantamount to saying 'if you weren't there your opinion doesn't count'.

Why are you so defensive? You seem to think you have a hard time on this forum, and when you enquire why this is, you deny the response you have received!
 
I used somebody's age against them once and I think it was Rich.
I still feel embarassed about it.
Why are you still bringing it up when it happened about 5 years ago?

Why don't you just let it go and ask a mod to close this thread and just get over yourself once and for all.
 
Posts like this undermine people's opinions on things. You imply authority because you were there. Well guess what, 'being there' doesn't mean you know it all.

You have taken at least two of those out of context - but hey, its an internet forum.

The first reply was to iBot and I needn't say anymore on that one because I was taking the wee because thats all he did.

The 2nd one has to be shown in context so please link because I can't find it but I'm sure its of me talking about a concert I was at and 'You had to be there'.

The 3rd one is correct and he didn't have a clue what he was talking about which was backed up by somebody just after me.

You will have to do a lot better than that.

Also, if you see the quotes that I posted, saying 'Mind you, you weren't even born' is, to me, tantamount to saying 'if you weren't there your opinion doesn't count'.

You have to read it to who it was made to.
It was iBot who does nothing but troll and got suspended for it.
Everybodys comments on here are valuable unless they troll.
 
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