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rubin1961 said:
i dont why iam posting this on here but i need to get all this out of my mind.
nobody on here has gave a soulition to this problem.
all i am asking for is help and what to do.
this is realy destroying me.
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People have given you plenty of solutions. Some have even pointed out that there is no problem. I don't see what the problem is either.

She offered; you refused; you told your wife later.

What problem? No problem.
 
i know, like i said, the only reason it's 'Destroying Him' is because he probably want to **** her.

otherwise this would have been a quick laugh with the wife and then move on. End of story
 
Evangelion said:
People have given you plenty of solutions. Some have even pointed out that there is no problem. I don't see what the problem is either.

She offered; you refused; you told your wife later.

What problem? No problem.
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Exactly.

Nothing happened, you told your wife originally, all went well.

There is no issue here. You've installed her aerial and her families now. Job done.

Hence I said, just forget about it now. Shes the one with the problem not you! If she wants to get all stroppy on the phone, that's her issue!

So at worst you may have lost her/her families future business, big deal.

I get stroppy customers all the time, thats life, deal with it, just get on with your life

It feels like your making a mountain out of a mole hill
 
How did i miss this gem the first 2 times around! I'd be proper chuffed if that happened to me. I wouldn't have hit it but hell, to get an eyeful is enough at work eh? ;)
 
Had very similar happenings

1 was while i was a sky installer (full nude walked in)

1 was while i was a glazier (came in a see-thru nighty doo dahh gizmo)

1 was when i was collecting unpaid bill for my boss (topless n thonged up then removed thong)

Don't tell your wife, They may seem fine and ok after you tell them, But in my experiance it niggles at them and then doubt creeps in

They can start to get paranoid and this also throws you off somewhat

I dare say this may not be the only incident like this that you encounter (hopefully it will be who knows)

Later in life tell the missus and she may see the funny side

As it is now i'd keep quiet even though you did nothing wrong
 
peeps i realy need help.
my wife went to a b/day party friday night,it was a friend from her work.
she took photos as you do and showed me them and to my utter SHOCK the person who i did the install for was in the photos not her b/day.
well the feeling i felt i cant explain,i felt phisicaly sick and my face must have gone deep red.
luckly enough my wife wasnt looking at me and i said i need a pee and went to the toilet to get a hold off myself.
now this gets worse,as we were looking at the photos my wife said you should know her you did her aerial because i gave her your number.
well my brain caved in and i said yes i remember she looks different with makeup on.
i havent slept well for 2 nights and i have cancelled the jobs for today because i need to get my head stright.
what is realy going on iam so confused,sick and upset i dont think my wife is trying to set me up because she is not like that.
i need to know realy what is going on.
 
God you must have a seriously weak mind mate.

Just be a man about the whole situation christ, i aint read the last god knows how many pages because i read the original stuff weeks ago.

Just chill out for gods sake.

Or tell your wife that "Thats the wierdo who got naked infront of me!"
 
Did the girl know you are married to her collegue?

If it was me i would just chill out.

Who knows about the naked person, you , your wife, and the woman?

So basically... who the hell is going to bring it up in conversation?

I would just try to see the funny side. You know you did nothing wrong so stand tall!
 
I'm going to have to call BS on this one. The whole thing is so preposterous that it's like a bad scene from Hollyoaks. If it's real, explain to your wife what happened, ask about the number exchange, and get over it. Most importantly, get off the damn internet and DO SOMETHING, ANYTHING. If it's not real then there's nothing a forum can do to help you with your issues.
 
Just man up and do the job. It's paid work and unless she tries to physically force herself on you, you've got no problems. If she does end up doing that, tell you wife and I'm sure she'll sort her out at work.

You should also tell your wife you know who the woman in the photo is :)
 
if you think your wife was 'trying to set you up' you're totally wrong..


might be best to just forget about it and hope you never meet her again.
 
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