I'm not surprised, you didn't say anything special.
I live on my own = I'm lonely
I've got some girls on the go = I can't sustain a meaningful relationship possibly due to some issues that led me to make this thread
I cant work properly = Does this mean you have a crap job?
I don't claim any benefits = is this suppose to be an achievement nowadays?
Sorry to sound harsh but someone's gotta do it.
Get a life, learn to paint, draw, build Pcs, play chess, go to uni or do home courses , read a book. Your life is what you make of it.