Think about it, are kids mortgage etc involved, if your missus is at the point of thinking about divorce then it is pretty much done, do you want to save it, is there anything worth saving?
Do you have feelings for "friend". Is she the one that when you see her moves something inside you and makes you day special just let say by text etc.
So if you thinking about saving your marriage then no don't go out
If your "friend" makes you melt inside then go out have fun.
Yes on both counts but the Mrs makes my life hell every day.
I tried talking to her about and instead of her being pleased I did the honorable thing she has accused me of being disloyal by indicating to my friend that she wouldn't like it.