Goodbye Dad

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im so sorry for your loss dude (

i lost my mum 2 years ago with a sudden death and it hit me hard.

i did the same and came onto here and the people on here made me feel a whole lot better and they even chose a song for me for my mum's funeral.

im the eldest and found the strength to make a speech on the day of my mum's funeral and got my 2 brother's to stand each side of me to give me strength.

a lot of friends and family said "i couldn't have done what you just did" but it was my last chance to say something good about my mum so i found the strength and done it,to this day im very happy i got up and done the speech as i would have regretted it forever.

chin up dude :)

were all here for you.
 
I am very sorry to hear that you lost your father Rollins. I can't imagine how lost you must be. I don't know what I would do if I lost either one of my parents so suddenly.

May he rest in peace.
 
Sorry to hear about your dad. I lost my dad suddenly too when he was 50, I know how you must be feeling it seems so unreal when something like this happens so suddenly. So sad. It takes time, but you will get things right again, hope your mums ok.
 
I feel for you, just try keep your head up for your mum and sister as women think different I think lol, I lost my dad exactly the same way he was 42 and just dropped dead in the front room from a massive heart attack, I just walked in the house and my mum was screaming for help but you can’t do anything..  It will get easy and you will start to feel normal again soon I felt better after a wk I think, your body goes into some kind of shock but it’s normal. RIP
 
So sorry to hear that OP :(

I can't begin to imagine what you're going through, losing someone so close to you unexpectedly can't be easy.

Take care, may your Father Rest In Peace.
 
Sorry for your loss.

An unexpected death will be even harder to deal with.

Keep your family around you as it's times like these that you grow closer.

I lost my father aged 52 from secondary bowel & liver cancer in the space of 4 months. That was quick but after the initial shock, expected.

I'm sure there are some charities that can give you emotional support if you need it.
 
So sorry for your loss :(
Dreading the day my dad goes, we have already lost him to alzheimer's and I'm dreading the 2nd loss.

I hope you have plenty of support and manage to get the words out.
 
There's not much else I can add other than to echo the sentiments of the previous posters - my thoughts are with you and your family at this time dude.

May your father rest in peace :(
 
I'm not sure what to say to you mate, I do have a small idea of how your feeling.

My dad died on June 20th this year. He went into work on the Friday before and had complete heart failure. It took paramedics and first aiders over 30 minutes, even with a defib kit, to get his heart restarted.

He was rushed in for emergency surgery, but suffered a severe brain injury due to the lack of oxygen, he died on the Monday evening. He was 57.

Sadly he too had complained of heartburn for a week before.

The best advice I can give you is talk to someone about it. It hurts, but it will get better with time
 
sorry to hear about this mate
lost my dad 4 years this december, my world is not the same
think of all the good stuff and keep strong as possible for your family
sorry to hear this
 
Sorry to hear of your loss buddy! Chin up, skim around the forums there is a lot of good advice
 
Sorry to hear that mate. One day at a time, allow yourself to grieve, it's all natural stuff. Like all things like this time will lessen the pain but you have to allow it. My heart really goes out to you and your family.
 
Sorry for your loss Rollins and I really don't know what to say to make things a little bit better.
I spent most of Monday at the Heart Attack Centre and Cardiology ward because my 50 year old Brother In Law who was visiting us had a heart attack about 20 miles from our house but luckily he was caught, had stents put in and went home back to Liverpool yesterday.
I'm at the vulnerable age of 53 and one thing I hope to have learned from yours and others losses is that there are usually signs before the event and I hope I can spot them.
 
Really sorry to hear that man :( the only person I've ever lost was my gran, she was 89 at the time and that was 10 years ago next month... I always think about her, but it doesn't make me break down any more - It is hard at first, you feel lost and like you're stuck in a dark cloud, but it does get easier with time :)

As said above, keep your family close through this, they'll need you and you'll need them.

I've never known my dad, but reading this made me think what I'd do if I lost my mum and I can't imagine the hardship you must be going through mate.

Remember, we may be 'digital friends' lol but we're all here for you if you need us :)
 
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