Grr...You know you're getting old..

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...when the girls you fancy already have a couple of sprogs!

How frustrating is it when the girl(s) you fancy already have a couple of kids! I would love to take one girl in particular out as we get along really well, but know I could never do the whole holidays abroad and fun days out stuff because of her young nippers :(

How do people cope with getting with girls who already have kids out of interest, especially if the father shows no interest and pays nothing towards their support?
 
Because they know their not going to get the "I want kids, or I'm leaving" type of lines.

Call me selfish but I resent the idea of supporting someone else's kids, partly because I really don't want any of my own (sadly most women *do* want to procreate). I understand the fear of those lines completely :p

Bleh!
 
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I am a parent and a "step parent". I get on very well with my step son but have never felt as close to him as my own kids. We never could quite get over a certain barrier. He is 20 now and has his own life and I feel I have contributed in a positive way to his upbringing. He has the same work ethic I have, unlike his natural father who has an aversion to work. He has grown up to be a well rounded person, not just due to me, obviously but my partner.
 
something really sexy about 22-27yr old(guesstimate) birds with a kid, iv seen some absolute stunners with a lil one, obviously single mums, in great shape and looking quite level headed. You know you wont get any of the childish girl crap too off em.
 
...when the girls you fancy already have a couple of sprogs!

How frustrating is it when the girl(s) you fancy already have a couple of kids! I would love to take one girl in particular out as we get along really well, but know I could never do the whole holidays abroad and fun days out stuff because of her young nippers :(

How do people cope with getting with girls who already have kids out of interest, especially if the father shows no interest and pays nothing towards their support?

Throw them in the bin?
 
It's just how things are these days. There arn't many decent single girls over 25 without kids.

Hmm ... bit late bit too much wine. I'l post in here tomorrow :)
 
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