guys a little help plz i need advise
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ye i found it funny to
i do i, you may not have a nurvas problem with girls but i do, its very hard to work up the nurves.
ye i found it funny to
i do i, you may not have a nurvas problem with girls but i do, its very hard to work up the nurves.
I used to, everyone does, it's just what happens. There's no real advice to give, no silver bullet, just man up and ask. If she REALLY does like you, she'll say yes and you'll be nuts deep by tea-time. If she doesn't really like you, you'll know the truth and you'll be ******* into your favourite sock by tea-time.
Win/win situation as far as I can make out.
He's already failed as he's giving this far too much thought and thus worked himself up into a state. Pen this one down to experience chap, and don't do it again. I know every instinct in your body is telling you to get a bit of that young stuff, and quite possibly every movement of her body is tricking you into thinking that she's asking for it, but you need to chill out. There are no consequences here: you just lack the adult perspective and experience to realise that for yourself. You're at the start of a very long journey, so stop worrying about it!
If all else fails, you can always do what they do on farms and get some friends hold her in place as you mount her.
If all else fails, you can always do what they do on farms and get some friends hold her in place as you mount her.
to late for that now(stupid mistake)Surely you want to get rid of the nerves, not spend time working them up.
also she has had a boyfriend before but he just used her, tried to have it with her and she sort of hurt him a lot, i dont know details
so OF CURSE IM NERVOUS .
Heh, I know how you feel mate, I was the same.
However what I did, and litteraly ALL you can do, is get over it.
Next time she comes over to you being all cute etc etc, just ask her! Ask her for her number or whatever or better yet, ask her out for a drink, your 17 you should have at least 1 bar/pub that will surve you and if not, a coffee is always fun to.
Don't think about it, don't worry about "working up the nurves" because it doesn't help, you just end up paranoid.
All you can do is GO FOR IT, the worst that can happen is she says no.
Or it could turn out she thinks your gay.
However what I did, and litteraly ALL you can do, is get over it.
Next time she comes over to you being all cute etc etc, just ask her! Ask her for her number or whatever or better yet, ask her out for a drink, your 17 you should have at least 1 bar/pub that will surve you and if not, a coffee is always fun to.
Don't think about it, don't worry about "working up the nurves" because it doesn't help, you just end up paranoid.
All you can do is GO FOR IT, the worst that can happen is she says no.
Or it could turn out she thinks your gay.
Dammit you beat me, I only got 17.
Sounds like a B-Rated film in the making.
Mate, you need to realise that unfortunately for you: at the age you currently are, all the girls want and are attracted to tend to be these so called idiots which will muck them about.
You have two options here: bite the bullet and just ask and improve your chances of doing the Fandango, or start applying that hand lotion as you're going to be getting real close over the next few years.
And the embarrassment that follows. it happened before.
Haha yeah that's probably true. Just ignore these people that are trying to take the **** out of you for your spelling and grammar, we all know they're 100% perfect and can talk down to people etc.
Ask one of your IRL mates to talk to her for you or something? Just ask for her number and then go from their. Start to text her, it's much easier than talking face to face and it will get your confidence levels up.
shes not like that, shes only had 1boyfriend and she still virgin
Of course she is.
You're building her up in your head to be some fantastic idol, when in reality she's probably a neurotic, needy, childish mess.
She is 17 - a child - she is not the best thing to have ever graced this planet; I win that accolade.
You are not her knight in shining armour; this is not Hollywood, this is contemporary, shallow, idiotic Britain.
Man up or get used to it. It's that simple. If you don't, you will eventually realise all this for yourself, but by then your ship would've sailed and you'll be walking down a very different street.
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shes not like that, shes only had 1boyfriend and she still virgin
See! You've got more in common than you thought!