I can't see you getting near 4Ghz with that board. If you are lucky you may manage 3.4-3.6ghz.
I tried all the above settings and tweaking them but it would not boot.
It's strange that its super stable @ 395 but won post at 396.
I tend to think the same here. I think if you have achieved 395 then thats still very good. Your board is the weak link here.
Back in the day of release i have mine @ 3.6GHZ on a p45. So you should be pretty happy with that.