Having one's bottom pinched when in a bar/club

Prophet · 6 Dec 2007 at 14:57

Picture the scene. You're out at the weekend in a bar or club generally minding your own business when someone of the opposite sex pinches your bum.

Now, if you're female I'd imagine its more annoying than anything else and a violation of your personal space etc. However for men I don't believe its the same. Not that it happens a lot but when it does I feel quite flattered unless its clearly a dare or some swampdonkey.

This brings me onto my questions. We all know what it mean when a man does it to a woman but what if a woman does it to a man?

Is it a green light to start talkng to them without the worry of rejection?

Should you grab a handful of their 'booty'?

Should it be ignored and treated as what happens when you're out?

As a newly single gentleman who has been pinched before but ignored it in the past I was interested to see what the general feeling was.

Please discuss.

Rich_L · 6 Dec 2007 at 15:00

Girl grabs a guy = consent

PardonTheWait · 6 Dec 2007 at 15:01

Throw your drink over them. They want equality, they can have it. Slags

Malc · 6 Dec 2007 at 15:01

Go for the handshake then stick the crust on. That'll teach 'em.

meghatronic · 6 Dec 2007 at 15:02

My croch was pinched once. I remembered thinking at the time if it was the other way around I'd be on the sex offenders register.

TheCrow · 6 Dec 2007 at 15:04

call the bouncer n get her thrown out, do her far sexual assault etc. Or you could just sleep with her n hope she still looks as good as you though if you ever see her again.

I would say its an invitation but 90% of the time girls are just being **** teases.

G|mp · 6 Dec 2007 at 15:05

Mohinder said:
Throw your drink over them. They want equality, they can have it. Slags

\o/

axer · 6 Dec 2007 at 15:07

Mohinder said:
Throw your drink over them. They want equality, they can have it. Slags

Someone buy this guy a drink, legend!

killsta · 6 Dec 2007 at 15:07

jdickerson said:
My croch was pinched once. I remembered thinking at the time if it was the other way around I'd be on the sex offenders register.

Too right, you should have done it out of principle!

4p · 6 Dec 2007 at 15:08

Mohinder said:
Throw your drink over them. They want equality, they can have it. Slags

My maaan

Bunka · 6 Dec 2007 at 15:09

The worst situation is when a complete munter does it.

Do you:

a) Ignore them and hope they don't do it again, even though you'll inevitably be at the bar for a good 5mins

or

b) Turn round and look at them in disgust.

You're really screwed if you go for option B and they do it even more.

Sic · 6 Dec 2007 at 15:10

axer said:
Someone buy this guy a drink, legend!

if he really thought that then I would!!

last girl that grabbed my ass in a club won't be doing it again. she got a right earful. I can't stand when someone accidentally touches me walking past me in a club, let alone purposefully touches me.

Tom0 · 6 Dec 2007 at 15:11

In a job a long time back one of the women i worked with used to love my butt, stand behind me when i was working fondling it.

Crazy.

4p · 6 Dec 2007 at 15:11

Tom0 said:
In a job a long time back one of the women i worked with used to love my butt, stand behind me when i was working fondling it.

Crazy.

pics

bread

etc

didnt happen

meghatronic · 6 Dec 2007 at 15:11

TheCrow said:
call the bouncer n get her thrown out, do her far sexual assault etc. Or you could just sleep with her n hope she still looks as good as you though if you ever see her again.

I would say its an invitation but 90% of the time girls are just being **** teases.

90%? Come on... gotta be more than that. That means 1 in 10 girls... I'd say at least 95+.

Tom0 · 6 Dec 2007 at 15:12

Hang on ill upload photographic slides from my memory for you... :rolleyes:

Pez · 6 Dec 2007 at 15:12

Mohinder said:
Throw your drink over them. They want equality, they can have it. Slags

Spot on.

Prophet · 6 Dec 2007 at 15:13

lol great replies

The other week I did three strafing runs of the same 'pincher' and got contact each time. However being a newbie to the single game I was more excited that it happened than to act on it

Tefal · 6 Dec 2007 at 15:14

Sic said:
if he really thought that then I would!!

last girl that grabbed my ass in a club won't be doing it again. she got a right earful. I can't stand when someone accidentally touches me walking past me in a club, let alone purposefully touches me.

I can see you hitting your head like the rain man and yelling "don't touch me!!!!!!!"

hamesy · 6 Dec 2007 at 15:14

Bunka said:
a) Ignore them and hope they don't do it again, even though you'll inevitably be at the bar for a good 5mins

or

b) Turn round and look at them in disgust.

Tried both with a girl I know and didn't work. Guess I'm screwed now.