heart ache!

You don't get charged per character on here. You don't need to abbreviate all the time.

If he doesn't want to be with you, then he isn't worth it. You need to ask him if he sees the relationship continuing.
 
He's going to need a hell of a lot of commitment for you to stay together while he's at uni.

Probably be best in the long run to end it now, if he's having second thoughts already.

Harsh I know, but why string out the pain. :o
 
You signed up to a hardware forum just to post about your relationship problems. I find that really strange, how did you find this forum? :eek:

He is just trying to let you go easy rather than telling you in one go.
 
No, you are not wrong to posting on here. Ignore the posts by the previous posters if they offend you.

Welcome to the forums :)

About the boyfriend, consider this. Do you want to spend time on being with him in a relationship - is it worth it? From your answer, you can then consider what you want to do.

Hope that helps.

Side note: One of my female friends has started Uni. I told her last week how I felt, and even though we are to be friends - I said lets be friends since it was not fair on her (never giving her the chance to respond to this) - I miss her too much :(
 
Hmm. must have missed the original post. There are some very nice people of these forums who'll go out of their way to support people. There are also some complete and utter ******** who'll take the **** and generally be a pain in the ass.

I wouldn’t let it scare you off. As I said there are some genuinely decent people on these boards.
 
Burly said:
You signed up to a hardware forum just to post about your relationship problems. I find that really strange, how did you find this forum? :eek:

He is just trying to let you go easy rather than telling you in one go.
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This forum is a relationship advice forum first and hardware forum second.. everyone knows that. <avoids Spie's incoming slap>
 
gord said:
This forum is a relationship advice forum first and hardware forum second.. everyone knows that. <avoids Spie's incoming slap>
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;) Yeah, I know I've been annoyed in the past too but I'm feeling in a mellow mood tonight... at least its someone different for a change!
 
getting relationship advice from the OcUK forums faithfull is like trying to get blood from a stone

difficult at best and what you get in the end is not what you wanted in the first place.
 
VeNT said:
getting relationship advice from the OcUK forums faithfull is like trying to get blood from a stone

difficult at best and what you get in the end is not what you wanted in the first place.
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General rule to follow: Known friends and mates first, anonymous forums 2nd...
 
Deadly Ferret said:
My advice is replace him with an older, more worldly and debonair chap. I'll consult my filofax and let you know when I have an opening in my schedule.
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Deadly Ferrets openings are legendary ;)
 
Eh! Was this an Arthur or a Martha? I'm strictly butter-side up, so I may have to rescind my offer of suave & sophisticated company over egg & chips at the local spoon.
 
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