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Kroegen

Kroegen

Kroegen

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Ok, so heres the situation.

I was searching the google groups looking at post by my fathers email address.

I found one post about a massage service, you know what kind i mean. And it was in holland where my father went on business a few times.

I dont have any pictures or anything, just a post which he made asking where they are. Im thinking shal i tell my mum about this. On one hand she has to know, on the other i dont want to falsely accuse my father.

What should i do?
 
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Link us!

Anyway, that's a situation I would not like to be in - if you're going to do something, then speak to your dad first, but be wary - dads have that position of power where you are likely to believe whatever they say... I know mine did.
 
Sp00n said:
Confront your father before informing your mother... imo.
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Agreed talk to your dad before saying anything to your mum, last thing you want is crossed wires etc.

Good luck though, not a situation id want to be in.
 
Cybermyk said:
Just because he asked a question doesn't necessarily mean he did anything wrong.
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Quite, which is why you need to talk to your father first and get the facts straight, or at least listen to his excuses before you jump to any comclusions and cause some serious issues which may or may not be justified.
 
No i dont. Just happened to come accross what he posted.

When he comes home from work, ill ask him about it first.
 
Kroegen said:
Ok, so heres the situation.

I was searching the google groups looking at post by my fathers email address.

I found one post about a massage service, you know what kind i mean. And it was in holland where my father went on business a few times.

I dont have any pictures or anything, just a post which he made asking where they are. Im thinking shal i tell my mum about this. On one hand she has to know, on the other i dont want to falsely accuse my father.

What should i do?
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Maybe he's just got a bad back?

Perhaps you should give us a link so we can see for ourselves?
 
How do you know kind of massage service it was? Ive had tons of massages and in some mad dodgy places...It aint all sexual..

Could be completely innocent...and hes im bloomin holland, not as though hed need to go to a massage parlour to find a hooker.
 
Kroegen said:
I dont have any pictures or anything, just a post which he made asking where they are. Im thinking shal i tell my mum about this. On one hand she has to know, on the other i dont want to falsely accuse my father.

What should i do?
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Why would you wanna inform your mum?
Why are you kinda snooping on your dad?

It has nothing to do with you, there could be a perfect and reasonable explanation for it. If you still wanna press on with it, i suggest you speak to your dad.....but make sure you know what you are doing.
 
ElRazur said:
Why would you wanna inform your mum?
Why are you kinda snooping on your dad?

It has nothing to do with you, there could be a perfect and reasonable explanation for it. If you still wanna press on with it, i suggest you speak to your dad.....but make sure you know what you are doing.
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stupid questions!

Because perhaps he rightly thinks that if someone is cheating or has cheated the other person has the right to know and he has also said he wasnt snooping but came across it by accident.

It definitely has something to do with him, its his dad and mum, his family life may have been put in jeapordy because of his dad.
 
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