This is EXACTLY the point I have been making
I completely agree with what you are both saying - it's absolutely not unexpected that the EA is acting on behalf of the vendor, since they are their direct customer - if they didn't do all they could to keep the price up they'd be rubbish at their job. However the issue is that the buyer agrees the purchase price BEFORE they know of any defects with the property, which are only evident once the BUYER pays to have the surveys done. If, say, £20k worth of major issues are discovered that must be sorted prior to being able to move in, the vendor is under no obligation whatsoever to drop the price once requested by the buyer via the EA, and the EA and the vendor's solicitor will obviously fight and fight and give any reason they can why they won't drop the price, because it would mean they all receive less between them. Therefore the buyer has zero bargaining power in a market such as we're in right now where there are tonnes of buyers and a massive shortage of stock = huge competition between buyers. All the EA and Solicitor need to say is "hey, you're welcome to pull out - we've got other buyers lined up". That's a terrible system. There's almost zero incentive for negotiation on the vendor's part.
This is not a fair system, in my experience. It's bizarre in the extreme that you would agree a price for a product before you know what condition it's in. Imagine if this were the Bay and you wanted to buy a used car from a seller there. You wouldn't say "I commit, subject to contract, to paying you £5000 for your car, regardless of condition". You'd make damned sure its condition was reflected in the price first, or the seller would have to accept that it's not and drop the price accordingly once the issues are disclosed/discovered, and any reasonable person would be happy to negotiate, since they should know the issues prior to the sale. In the case of property selling, the vendor might not know of certain serious issues (mine had no idea the house was tip to toe in asbestos), but I seriously think they should have a contingency in place for unknown issues that arise from surveys and be ready to negotiate over these issues.
The process is utterly mental. In a buyers' market it's a little better, because the vendor will usually have to be more willing to neg on the sale price etc. But on those occasions you could argue it's all stacked against the vendor, which is no good either. What we need is a balance. Currently the majority of the time it's all stacked heavily against the buyer, and I think that's terribly wrong.
Where EAs come into all this is that they have enormous power and influence over the industry and its practices, and with such heavyweights involved there is very little anyone can hope to do to even the balance between buyer and seller. Solicitors need more power, in my opinion. Similarly, it is ridiculous that the potential buyer (not even the committed buyer!) must pay for surveys to be done to find out if there are issues with a property they don't even own yet. Then, if the buyer pulls out, the same batch of surveys are all paid for yet again by the next potential buyer ad infinitum. It's insane.
The vendor should absolutely have to pay for all surveys, once, and give them out free to potential buyers via the EA. The HBR was a step in the right direction but sadly was removed. Then it's all dead simple - "Here's my property with XYZ issues which we have had valued independently at ABC price." - then you negotiate a little here and there if necessary. Currently it's "Here's my property - I'm not disclosing any of the issues with it that I know about already, you're going to have to pay perhaps £800 or so to discover those issues, and once you let me know about them, I'm probably going to simply ignore them anyway, so you're pretty much wasting everyone's time even bothering.". That's not right. It's also bonkers that the buyer (the potential buyer!) then, on top of all this, must pay YET AGAIN to have the bank do a mortgage valuation survey, when one was done prior to the property going on the market.
And all this time, you're still not definitely getting the property, because at any point you or the vendor could pull out. But hey that's great flexibility for the buyer, right? Not really, because by the time you've gone all the way down this lengthy, painful process, you've probably paid something like £1500-£2000 just in survey and legal costs, and maybe anything up to £6000 in rent. So suddenly you're £8k down - of course you're not going to just jump ship at that point. You're so heavily invested in the process it's almost too late now. If you had to start over from scratch you'd lose another 6k in rent, another 2k in fees and maybe the next place you find will have worse problems or be in a less suitable location or just cost more for whatever reason. Enormous pressure and stress is put on you to keep on going, keep moving, keep your nerve and not let things get on top of you. All the while there are zero guarantees and you've got the property and the EA and vendor's solicitor fiercely fighting against you giving you every reason under the sun why their property will sell tomorrow if you pull out now and why the price is fair etc. etc. This all sounds great for the vendor, except that that same vendor is also a buyer, probably, or would be shortly afterwards...
It's a horrible process and needs to change, in my opinion and experience.