How Often Do You Worry?

Ben M · 12 Sep 2008 at 19:52

djmc0 said:
LOL, Queen Mary's just down the road from me. Tell her to stay a away from the Hayfield (dodgy students pub)

will do

schnipps · 12 Sep 2008 at 19:56

Never, can do what she likes.

HangTime · 12 Sep 2008 at 20:09

I worry about her but not in terms of the sort of things other people worry about (sleeping around, ill health etc).

-I worry about her finding out stuff I don't want her to.
-I worry about her spending so much money on crap and then me having to bail her out.
-I worry about how tough it must be for her to have a parent with serious mental problems (attempting suicide etc)
-I worry about her worrying and fussing so much! Heh. She makes at least 20 phonecalls a day just to check up on the smallest details and pass on any insignificant piece of gossip.

djmc0 · 12 Sep 2008 at 20:13

HangTime said:
I worry about her but not in terms of the sort of things other people worry about (sleeping around, ill health etc).

-I worry about her finding out stuff I don't want her to.
-I worry about her spending so much money on crap and then me having to bail her out.
-I worry about how tough it must be for her to have a parent with serious mental problems (attempting suicide etc)
-I worry about her worrying and fussing so much! Heh. She makes at least 20 phonecalls a day just to check up on the smallest details and pass on any insignificant piece of gossip.

That sounds errr, scarily like my Ex... lol, good luck with that.

[TW]Fox · 12 Sep 2008 at 20:14

I worry about the fact she drives a bloody Corsa.

Camalot · 12 Sep 2008 at 20:24

I only worry when she is out drinking, incase she gets attacked. I can't sleep untill she gets home and i know she is safe, is that normal?

If she got hold of my bank account, then i would worry

LordSplodge · 12 Sep 2008 at 20:30

[TW]Fox;12491262 said:
I worry about the fact she drives a bloody Corsa.

Now that's something to worry about.

djmc0 · 12 Sep 2008 at 20:31

Camalot said:
I only worry when she is out drinking, incase she gets attacked. I can't sleep untill she gets home and i know she is safe, is that normal?

If she got hold of my bank account, then i would worry

IMO thats totally rational, I think most blokes would feel the same. But as I said earlier in the thread, what is the point of worrying about things outside of your direct influence? I know it is harder said than done, but when you think about it is unnecessary.

yermum · 12 Sep 2008 at 21:46

The best advice I can pass on is what I was told when I was having anxious thoughts about my beloved OH. Whenever he went out, I would write down how anxious I was and what I was anxious about. Then I would write down how I felt when he came home and noted that nothing bad had happened. In this way I leaned to concentrate on the positives ie. every time he went out he returned safely, and learned to forget about the negatives.

Good luck.

Ben M · 12 Sep 2008 at 22:02

yermum said:
The best advice I can pass on is what I was told when I was having anxious thoughts about my beloved OH. Whenever he went out, I would write down how anxious I was and what I was anxious about. Then I would write down how I felt when he came home and noted that nothing bad had happened. In this way I leaned to concentrate on the positives ie. every time he went out he returned safely, and learned to forget about the negatives.

Good luck.

Women/ gays are mad, all of them.

InvaderGIR · 12 Sep 2008 at 22:36

Never used to worry about my last girlfriend, other than when she drove home from seeing me (lived 60miles away and she drives like a complete ****).

Now I'm single I don't worry about her.

InvG

bobby · 13 Sep 2008 at 08:43

Worry about my boyfriend pretty much constantly - not him cheating on me, I trust him. He's in America with work atm so I worry about him eating enough good food, getting enough sleep, being stressed, being bored and generally being unhappy - general well-being and what mind-set he's in. I tend to worry about everything though - I'm sure it's not healthy but it's not something I intentionally choose to do. I love him so I worry about him.

=VTA=MANFACE · 13 Sep 2008 at 08:50

I worry about not getting rid of her.

RoleyBirkin · 30 Oct 2008 at 12:56

I worry about not being able to get rid of her.

Skidder · 30 Oct 2008 at 12:58

never

Kerplunk · 30 Oct 2008 at 13:00

RoleyBirkin said:
I worry about not being able to get rid of her.

lol

Adsta · 30 Oct 2008 at 13:10

RoleyBirkin said:
I worry about not being able to get rid of her.

hehe

I dont worry at all tbh. If she goes out drinking with her friends I worry a touch incase of attack etc, but then she normally goes out with friends so that puts my mind at ease a bit.

But to the OP what do you mean by worry ? As most people you shouldnt worry about that which is out of your control. Unless she is cheating you could always turn into a psycho and kill him.

But thats your choice..... I still remember reading on the console forum about some german dude (I think) coming over to the UK and killing someone cuz they called him a noob on a forum lol

Skidder · 30 Oct 2008 at 13:12

Adsta said:
hehe

I dont worry at all tbh. If she goes out drinking with her friends I worry a touch incase of attack etc, but then she normally goes out with friends so that puts my mind at ease a bit.

But to the OP what do you mean by worry ? As most people you shouldnt worry about that which is out of your control. Unless she is cheating you could always turn into a psycho and kill him.

But thats your choice..... I still remember reading on the console forum about some german dude (I think) coming over to the UK and killing someone cuz they called him a noob on a forum lol

noob! I double dare you

LiE · 30 Oct 2008 at 13:13

Worrying is pointless.

GravyMonster · 30 Oct 2008 at 13:17

I very rarely worry about anything. The missus however worries about everything.

Chill with the still I say.