How rubbish!

[Tom L]

Been organising my gf's 30th birthday for the past 3 months, wanted it to be flawless and part of it was a surprise limo turning up to take us and friends to the restaurant we're going to. I had to tell her best friend about the arrangements as a few are coming from her house so she needed to know about the limo arrival times etc. They both went out on Saturday for shopping, her best friend got absolutely smashed and ended up telling my gf about the limo surprise...

I found this out by talking to her best friend who claimed on the phone to me that "my gf thinks more than just a taxi is turning up to pick us up, maybe its a limo" where actually, she knows its a limo because she told her! I ended up saying to her best friend that I haven't given any clues away towards the limo so hopefully it is a surprise and she said that it will be and she'll love it... My gf then confessed to me yesterday that she leaked it out on the Saturday but didnt want to tell me straight away because she felt bad for me and told me to promise to her that I say nothing to her best friend.

Promised to my gf not to say anything to her best friend but I want to go spastic at her! Really gutted and feels like it has taken the edge out of the entire occasion, even though i have more surprises in line for her.

Worriyng thing is, I told her best friend I'm proposing to her on holiday next week... now I'm worried that has been leaked to!

How selfish can someone be? especially a best friend... have shot of her I say!

Rant over.

 

[Tom L]

Um was there a reason you told her best friend all of this and not your own best friend!?

Told my best mate, he has kept it secret as far as I know! Told her cos she is part of the arrangements (limo going to hers to pick up a host of people).

 

[Tom L]

Thing is, this is amongst other things like:

if we go out as a group and my gf goes up to the bar with someone to get a round, her best friend will whisper in my ear "that was a political move", I'd be like huh? then she'll say "there is a hot guy near the bar"... why try tell me that stuff when i clearly see my gf not even noticing/looking?!

i also know her best friend tries to 'encourage' her to talk to guys if they show interest in my gf who shuts them down as soon as they try... even though she knows that she is with me and knows we are perfect together.

Jealously, perhaps?

 

[Tom L]

Aye, does her best friend happen to be single?

She might be jealous of either her and you being happy and her not, or she is jealous that you are 'taking' her best friend from her.

She is single, has been for some time. Is approaching 40 later this year, wants someone and a family etc, sleeps with randoms... use to go out lots with my gf before I arrived on the scene etc.