Personally my viewpoint is that I don't really see the need for any of this smart stuff.
I'm more than happy to flick a light switch with my finger. And the beauty of simplicity is that there's very little to go wrong
Meanwhile, the bleddy Amazon Firestick has never worked properly from the moment I first got it. Alexa? No thanks
So yeah, there will always be 100 things I need more than a smart home.
But yeah, the (lack of) security would concern me also. A lot of these devices are riddled with exploits.
Sounds like you fell into the wrong thread whilst half asleep