How to catch a psychopath...

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Then bring the pain!
 
Sleeve88 said:
Psychopathy (/saɪˈkɒpəθi/[1][2] is a personality disorder that has been variously characterized by shallow emotions (including reduced fear, a lack of empathy, and stress tolerance), coldheartedness, egocentricity, superficial charm, manipulativeness, irresponsibility, impulsivity, criminality, antisocial behavior, a lack of remorse, and a parasitic lifestyle.
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That sounds like a good description of most politicians.
 
There is only one solution that I can think of and that is she has to just walk out the door. What is it that's keeping her there? You said friends and pets, well her friends will still be her friends and she can take her pets with her.

Her sanity, safety, future, etc is at stake, why f about, just leave and sort out anything that needs sorting with regard to property or whatever from a distance.

Psychological abuse is the worst kind of abuse imo, at least bumps and bruises heal, a lot of psychological abuse never heals.

If it's as bad for her as she says it is then she only has one option, she has to get out.

I immediately thought about a spy cam or two but it could be tricky if he was ever to find out about it, either in the short term or even in the long term if anything was to ever go to court or anything.

The safest and quickest option is just to tell her to walk out the door.
 
Try the National Centre for Domestic Violence.

http://www.ncdv.org.uk/

They are a charitable organisation and used by quite a few Police Forces, including the one I work for. Brilliant People.

Although your relative appears not be be subject to violent behaviour (though this is difficult to see since abusers often hit people on parts covered by clothing and/or the victim will never admit to it), the behavour is without doubt Domestic abuse.

For those that say 'why doesn't she leave him' it isn't that easy. People are not stupid. Years of conditioning often wears people down and breaks their spirit.

Having dealt with many vicitims over the years one of the most common things they say is 'he's lovely sometimes' or 'he can be so caring' - oddly they love this part of the offender and it can be a major factor in not leaving him. It is odd, but it happens. You have to bear in mind most of the relationships were fairly normal at the beginning and to give up someone that you once loved is a very difficult thing to do.

Victims can be fearful that the Offender will never leave them alone if they leave. They are often scared to make that jump to safety into the unknown. There are a multitude of reasons why they don't leave.

I would go to your local Police Divisional HQ and ask to speak to someone from the Domestic Violence Unit. They will help.
 
In 1972 a crack commando unit was sent to prison by a military court for a crime they didn't commit,

These men promptly escaped from a maximum security stockade to the Los Angeles underground,

Today, still wanted by the government, they survive as soldiers of fortune.

If you have a problem, if no one else can help, and if you can find them, maybe you can hire,

the A-Team
 
Andy90 said:
Try the National Centre for Domestic Violence.

http://www.ncdv.org.uk/

They are a charitable organisation and used by quite a few Police Forces, including the one I work for. Brilliant People.

Although your relative appears not be be subject to violent behaviour (though this is difficult to see since abusers often hit people on parts covered by clothing and/or the victim will never admit to it), the behavour is without doubt Domestic abuse.

For those that say 'why doesn't she leave him' it isn't that easy. People are not stupid. Years of conditioning often wears people down and breaks their spirit.

Having dealt with many vicitims over the years one of the most common things they say is 'he's lovely sometimes' or 'he can be so caring' - oddly they love this part of the offender and it can be a major factor in not leaving him. It is odd, but it happens. You have to bear in mind most of the relationships were fairly normal at the beginning and to give up someone that you once loved is a very difficult thing to do.

Victims can be fearful that the Offender will never leave them alone if they leave. They are often scared to make that jump to safety into the unknown. There are a multitude of reasons why they don't leave.

I would go to your local Police Divisional HQ and ask to speak to someone from the Domestic Violence Unit. They will help.
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It ultimately boils down to her either leaving or staying and putting up with it as people like her partner very rarely change in my experience. Strong support from friends and family and hopefully she can gain the courage/strength and make the right choice.
 
Go to the police.

Has anyone confronted him about his behaviour yet? If so why not?

Seems like a classic domestic abuse scenario (doesn't have to be physical violence or abuse). Recently I remember reading that this sort of abuse was now classified as an offence. It also depending on the behaviour could be classed as harrassment.
 
When all else fails, call some boys who will call some boys and make him disappear.


Oh and don't get caught! ;)
 
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