Get yourself on a skid course, it'll be the best 100 odd quid you'll ever spend!
After a morning of repetitively having the car lose the back end catching it, it becomes 2nd nature and it takes away the blind panic when it happens to you in real life.
As you're only on the wirral get down to here http://www.angleseycircuit.com/performance-driving-centre/skid-control
I managed to do it free through work but would have happily paid the price myself for how much safer i feel on the road now. Its saved me several times on track days with being able to calmly correct a massive slide and carry on without any panicking, and im sure it'll continue to help me if we get one of those bad winters again.
+1.
Explaining the process to you is simple pointless.
There is just NO substitute for experience, as you'll never remember a "recommendation" at the time you really need it. It's either instinctive because of experience, or not.
As suggested, go spend some dosh on a skid pan course. Secondly, next time it snows, go have a play in a place where you can do it safely.