How wrong is it to...

[Nefarious]

I met up with a friend over the weekend and they introduced me to a few people. I got on very well with everyone but... two of the people there were a couple. I got on VERY well with one of them and we exchanged numbers. They had flirted with me the whole day to the point where their boyfriend was ****** off and then I started receiving text messages which left nothing to the imagination.

I asked what exactly was going on and was told that she was happy to do things behind her partner's back. I said I wasn't and yet I'm still getting messages. If this is the way they behave then they're clearly not relationship material in the first place so would it be making the situation that much worse...?

I'm fairly certain that I shouldn't do it but morally I'm not totally sure that it would be necessarily 'wrong' if I did....

 

[Nefarious]

I tried backing off and saying that I didn't feel right about the situation and that hasn't stopped me receiving messages...

The other quandry is - if I don't do anything, should I tell her other half?

 

[Nefarious]

Okay, it seems that most of us agree that I should leave well alone but...

Where do I go from here? I'm still getting messages and get the strong feeling that if it's not me it'll be someone else - should I send a friendly warning and how do I fob her off?

 

[Nefarious]

I remember a situation like this at college, except when the boyfriend found out and he attempted to beat the other guy up, he got his nose broken.

What a loser

Anyway, leave it alone, nothing to do with morals, more because she sounds like filth. Unless thats what you are after......

Sexy filth though

Luckily I think that the other half is not really the violent type and the reason I'm a more attractive proposition is that I'm fitter so no worries on that front! The reason I mention this is that I have been put in this position before and said no and was STILL blamed for breaking them up!

 

[Nefarious]

As I said - I have been in this situation before, more than once, on previous occasions I have done the 'right thing' and still endded up getting lambasted for it.

It's getting a little tiring to get all of the flack and none of the f... you get the point.

If I do nothing they're bound to split up fairly soon and I can do what I want if I tell her boyf she'll know and not speak to me, let alone anything else, BUT surely that's the right thing? Wouldn't waiting in the sure and certain knowledge that it wont last till month's end be just as bad as taking her now?