How wrong is it to...

Depth said:
I remember a situation like this at college, except when the boyfriend found out and he attempted to beat the other guy up, he got his nose broken.

What a loser :p

Anyway, leave it alone, nothing to do with morals, more because she sounds like filth. Unless thats what you are after......
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Sexy filth though :D

Luckily I think that the other half is not really the violent type and the reason I'm a more attractive proposition is that I'm fitter so no worries on that front! The reason I mention this is that I have been put in this position before and said no and was STILL blamed for breaking them up!
 
Nefarious said:
Okay, it seems that most of us agree that I should leave well alone but...

Where do I go from here? I'm still getting messages and get the strong feeling that if it's not me it'll be someone else - should I send a friendly warning and how do I fob her off?
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Ignore the messages, she'll get bored at some point.

It'd be really really not very nice of you if you dont just leave alone.
 
Nefarious said:
I'm fairly certain that I shouldn't do it but morally I'm not totally sure that it would be necessarily 'wrong' if I did....
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How did you manage to reach such a stupid conclusion? Of course it's wrong. Tell her to break up if she wants your **** so bad.
 
As I said - I have been in this situation before, more than once, on previous occasions I have done the 'right thing' and still endded up getting lambasted for it.

It's getting a little tiring to get all of the flack and none of the f... you get the point.

If I do nothing they're bound to split up fairly soon and I can do what I want if I tell her boyf she'll know and not speak to me, let alone anything else, BUT surely that's the right thing? Wouldn't waiting in the sure and certain knowledge that it wont last till month's end be just as bad as taking her now?
 
Just reply with any old carp to wind her up. She probably has 3/4 of you on the go....the text **** !!!!...can I have her number... :D



You're right no way relationship material.....
 
Nefarious said:
As I said - I have been in this situation before, more than once, on previous occasions I have done the 'right thing' and still endded up getting lambasted for it.

It's getting a little tiring to get all of the flack and none of the f... you get the point.

If I do nothing they're bound to split up fairly soon and I can do what I want if I tell her boyf she'll know and not speak to me, let alone anything else, BUT surely that's the right thing? Wouldn't waiting in the sure and certain knowledge that it wont last till month's end be just as bad as taking her now?
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In which case wait till it ends. If she's looking for an excuse to end the relationship don't let it be you - don't be the catalyst. Who knows, she may end up with someone else and then you'll just see she was looking for any way out.

I was in a similar situation a couple of years ago with a girl called Melissa. This girl was stunning - any guy would have drooled over her something rotten. Anyway, she had a long term boyfriend but after work her and I ended up going for a drink. As the night went on she said she never went out with anyone else, always went home to her boyfriend and that she'd lied to him about where she was tonight. Then she got more and more tactile and started saying how she loved me and all this stuff. Of course I thought "wahey... ace!!" but then I pictured her boyfriend and what he'd think if he could see us now. I suddenly felt a bit of a letch and user.. and decided to put her on a bus home.

God... it was an A* missed opportunity, but I certainly did the right thing. If you want sex and the baggage that will inevitably come with it, go for it. But when you start seeing her be ready for the texts from HER ex, the ensuing problems, she'll start getting emotional.... seriously... it's a world of poo that you're diving into just to get your end away.
 
Nefarious said:
As I said - I have been in this situation before, more than once, on previous occasions I have done the 'right thing' and still endded up getting lambasted for it.
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Well they're muppets if you had nothing to do with it.

It's getting a little tiring to get all of the flack and none of the f... you get the point.
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You need some new friends if something like this is becoming tiring IMO.

If I do nothing they're bound to split up fairly soon and I can do what I want if I tell her boyf she'll know and not speak to me, let alone anything else, BUT surely that's the right thing? Wouldn't waiting in the sure and certain knowledge that it wont last till month's end be just as bad as taking her now?
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No mate. You've made me think though...This women comes across as pretty loose so if she don't get it from you, she'll probably try elsewhere. The same outcome to the BF, just got a few more runs out of her and she cheated with a different bloke. That doesn't give you the green light to pound her though tbh. Either leave it or let the BF know his girl is a filthy little slaaaaaaper.
 
Nefarious said:
I asked what exactly was going on and was told that she was happy to do things behind her partner's back. I said I wasn't and yet I'm still getting messages. If this is the way they behave then they're clearly not relationship material in the first place so would it be making the situation that much worse...?
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Do her mum and if she thinks its still a good idea to cheat...if so 'hit it'.

Btw dirty slappers are not useful on your notch post...so leave them alone.
 
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