Hypothetically win a £100k on a gameshow

I don't know why this would become a heated debate? Or any kind of debate for that matter. It's her money and it's her choice to do whatever she wants with it, that's the bottom line.

If she got a 100K bonus at work would she be expected to split it with the family? No, of course not.

Completely agree, however some people really would expect them to share if they got a 100k bonus at work.

It's absolutely true that money can't buy happiness, and mostly it's down to others wanting to "share" in the bounty!!, and then feeling they didn't get their "fair" share..
 
Yep know the feeling and very similar story. In fact in my families case it was less about the overall money as that was evenly split between all siblings. The bickering and eventual split in the family was all down to small minor things like some jewellery and other collectibles which in the grand scheme of things are worth a pittance. Which makes the whole thing petty. I know my grandparents would be turning in their graves if they knew this was what was going to happen.

Same. I think of all the work my grandparents put into building what they had. And now the family is no longer a family.

What really grates me about is they are all wealthy. It's not like one person has nothing and other have loads.

Can't undo how you can lose family ties over money and land etc.

Now you have them all getting old and now bitter/depressed etc over numbers on a bank statement. Unbelievable. I don't have much sympathy
 
If I won something I’d split it with the kids, if my kids won something I’d consider it theirs to do with as they please/want/need.

Unless we’re talking mega millions then I’d be expecting them to retire me!

Pretty much this - would be nice if they paid for a family holiday or took us out for a meal, but I'd want them to keep the bulk of it for a house deposit/education/etc. (I'd probably be a bit annoyed if they kept it all and just wasted it to be honest...)

Please find the question :D

Rearrange the letters to make the name of a famous actor from the film "The Matrix":

A) Stathon Jasam
B) Wuce Brillis
C) Reanu Keeves
D) Hidolf Atler
 
Completely agree, however some people really would expect them to share if they got a 100k bonus at work.
Tell me about it.. lol

Not that I get 100k bonus.. but it was suggested that I buy a house by one of my siblings so that they could live in it.. lol. As I was looking for a 2nd house more of a bungalow to rent out till I retire, then I would be renting/selling my current place. I was like IF I could afford to let you live rent free then I would be using the cash to pay off my mortgage!
 
Quite nice in media city!

Had a chat in the car on the way down here. I asked her thoughts on what she would do if she won the £100k. Give us £30k, her brother £5k (spooky!), put some into her Lisa, take us all on holiday.

It was a nice hypothetical situation and it was nice to hear her thinking of us all and not just herself.

Of course it could have all been b0llocks as she said she would take the £1k if she gets that far!
 
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Quite nice in media city!

Had a chat in the car on the way down here. I asked her thoughts on what she would do if she won the £100k. Give us £30k, her brother £5k (spooky!), put some into her Lisa, take us all on holiday.

It was a nice hypothetical situation and it was nice to hear her thinking of us all and not just herself.

Of course it could have all been b0llocks as she said she would take the £1k if she gets that far!
If my daughter won 100k and offered me 30k I'd be giving her it back immediately fyi. Your scenario works both ways and reflects on you too
 
Mmmmm, not sure, everyone's situation is different, what if the parents were in the brink of repossession and that £30k would keep them from being homeless? Too many variables to say carte blanche you would hand back immediately.

Fortunately, we would also refuse £30k too, it was just nice to hear her say that.

Anyway, all hypothetical, but it's all been fun so far! Let's see what tomorrow brings.
 
Either a down payment for a home in a decent area, or the purchase of stable non-depreciating assets. I'd be hesitant about long term bank investment in the current climate, but it's not a terrible option either.

The economy is in a bit of a mess right now, a sudden 100K will make a younger person feel rich until it's all down the toilet in many cases.

We're largely dumb arses until around 30 in my experience, Id not be surprised that should she nail the 100K the money would be spent on cars, gifts, and holidays.

I do feel that there's a bit of a disconnect between users, OCUK has always been quite heavily populated by well to do middle class types that rate the value of money very differently to others. I come from a (legitimate, not Maggie T style) working class background, there's a lot of factors that differ when looking at money. In the North East UK you could buy a two bedroom semi-detached in a so-so area for under 200K, obviously not everyone wants to move or deal with a drop in quality but I do think value factors into long term decisions. There's a ton of investment from big tech companies in NE UK right now, house prices are relatively low in some areas but I doubt that'll be the case in 10-20 years.

However, that money is hers to spend however she wishes, period.
 
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Reading some of the comments got me thinking even though it's not a mega amount of money, if you won that at my age (38) it would likely clear or take a big chunk out of the mortgage which is likely your biggest expense. That would be very useful to free up the monthly cash flow.
 
Same. I think of all the work my grandparents put into building what they had. And now the family is no longer a family.

What really grates me about is they are all wealthy. It's not like one person has nothing and other have loads.

Can't undo how you can lose family ties over money and land etc.

Now you have them all getting old and now bitter/depressed etc over numbers on a bank statement. Unbelievable. I don't have much sympathy

Yup it's sad mate.

Unfortunately a lot of people seem to have an obsession with getting money and possessions, neither of which truly bring happiness.
 
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