I am getting old, or boring, or both

This could certainly be one cause.

I always remember this meme:

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I really enjoy the specifying, shortlisting, buying and building of PCs (see sig) but when it's finished one can feel a bit empty, the "what do I do with it now!" comes to mind. Thankfully it's not long before a particular game comes along that hooks me and justifies the time and cost.

To the OP, I think you've done the right thing by realising that you no longer enjoy it, just don't beat yourself up about it. Move on to something else. Your desire for computer games may come back or it may not.
It's not that he no longer enjoys it, it's just that he no longer feels that excitement factor. Like 'cant wait to upgrade my pentium 4 to a Core 2 Duo' or upgrading your ram from 256mb to 2gb. The magic has gone.

*I remember upgrading from a HD2400 to a 8600gt and enabling shadows on the first mission on cod4. That was a truly mind blown moment. That's when the upgrade itch began. Memories like that only happens once in a while. Now we're older, we've basically seen it all.
 
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After 30 years of PC building I decided today I no longer need GFX card..... a sad day, but I removed the 2080 that I have had no need to upgrade for 5 years (and couldn't afford to or justify upgrading)... switched to the iGPU in my 9700k, and hey presto, it has made no difference to me what so ever... unfortunately. Even the 9700k is probably overkill for me...

Don't get me wrong, I game but I switched to the Xbox about 3 years ago and haven't looked back, sacrilege I know, but it saves a ton of cash, and stress, it just works, as does my now much quieter and cooler PC.

Only really posting because after 30 years of owning and upgrading from probably a Voodoo 3DFX 3000, I have to admit I am no longer (or can afford to be) the keen PC hardware nut I once was. I still like the PC, but I don't like (and can no longer afford) the prices to keep up with things. I remember spending 170 quid on an Nvidia 270 in 2007 and thinking that was a wedge...

Just remember, we don't all need the latest and greatest, even if we want it!!

Although I have a gaming PC, I also have two PC's that are for media, NAS functions and backups. Each PC has a TV as a monitor. They used to be older generation gaming PC's. With electricity and component prices, I built two new machines. Low power, PC's with no graphics card. They use about 1/3 the power yet can manage the necessary tasks with ease. Crazy thing is that they didn't cost much either. Selling the old gaming components on eBay supplied enough cash to buy the components for the new ones.
 
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Being a PC enthusiast is getting so expensive, i certainly don't upgrade and tinker with my PC like i used to which i started in 1999-2000 ish. Next gen Consoles have caught up a tad and the plug and play is very convenient for me, Of course only the PC can still deliver 4K and RT above 60FPS.
 
After 30 years of PC building I decided today I no longer need GFX card..... a sad day, but I removed the 2080 that I have had no need to upgrade for 5 years (and couldn't afford to or justify upgrading)... switched to the iGPU in my 9700k, and hey presto, it has made no difference to me what so ever... unfortunately. Even the 9700k is probably overkill for me...

Don't get me wrong, I game but I switched to the Xbox about 3 years ago and haven't looked back, sacrilege I know, but it saves a ton of cash, and stress, it just works, as does my now much quieter and cooler PC.

Only really posting because after 30 years of owning and upgrading from probably a Voodoo 3DFX 3000, I have to admit I am no longer (or can afford to be) the keen PC hardware nut I once was. I still like the PC, but I don't like (and can no longer afford) the prices to keep up with things. I remember spending 170 quid on an Nvidia 270 in 2007 and thinking that was a wedge...

Just remember, we don't all need the latest and greatest, even if we want it!!
I for a similar point this year, to break it down

* was a semi pro gamer in my early years
* I created pcs for myself and friends
* done water cooling, tried liquid nitrogen
* I used to buy a new pc pretty much yearly
* if I could tweak something I did
* got my pc to sub <20Dba
* git my pc in top 5 of fastest rigs on various forums


I realised, my gaming went from
95% gaming
5% tweaking

to
95% tweaking
2% gaming
3% wasting time on Amazon/doom scrolling

Felt like I was working 24/7.
I unplugged my pc 5900/7900xtx

If I could tweak something I had too it’s addiction one day I’d want super quiet next day I want as many fps as possible I was chasing numbers
Got up to 240fps on some of my favourite games at 1440p uw

Also bought a new monitor every year I got 6 oled monitors now…

Bought a PS5, bought 20 odd games that are not on pc or coming later to pc bought ps5 premium
Bought a m3 MacBook Pro with 14c/18GB RAM

Last 3 months I’ve been
99% gaming
1% on MacBook doing what I need


Not looking back, looking to sell my pc to work people maybe or just cut it uff as big lose moved my Xbox series X next to my ps5 bought a year if game pass

Looking to face fun! Other great thing is how relaxing it is to not have windows annoyances and everything to just work

Last 3 months I’ve completed 5 games more games than a few years on pc
 
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I for a similar point this year, to break it down

* was a semi pro gamer in my early years
* I created pcs for myself and friends
* done water cooling, tried liquid nitrogen
* I used to buy a new pc pretty much yearly
* if I could tweak something I did
* got my pc to sub <20Dba
* git my pc in top 5 of fastest rigs on various forums


I realised, my gaming went from
95% gaming
5% tweaking

to
95% tweaking
2% gaming
3% wasting time on Amazon/doom scrolling

Felt like I was working 24/7.
I unplugged my pc 5900/7900xtx

If I could tweak something I had too it’s addiction one day I’d want super quiet next day I want as many fps as possible I was chasing numbers
Got up to 240fps on some of my favourite games at 1440p uw

Also bought a new monitor every year I got 6 oled monitors now…

Bought a PS5, bought 20 odd games that are not on pc or coming later to pc bought ps5 premium
Bought a m3 MacBook Pro with 14c/18GB RAM

Last 3 months I’ve been
99% gaming
1% on MacBook doing what I need


Not looking back, looking to sell my pc to work people maybe or just cut it uff as big lose moved my Xbox series X next to my ps5 bought a year if game pass

Looking to face fun! Other great thing is how relaxing it is to not have windows annoyances and everything to just work

Last 3 months I’ve completed 5 games more games than a few years on pc
I agree, I was never heavily into games, but I was big into ITX, before it became a popular thing, the challenge for me was build it small and make it cool, literally. I was happily spending 300+ on a high quality ITX case, and the premium for the components, then tinker with custom fans, cables, and clocks to optimise the build.

Then Apple comes along with the M1, and completely blows anything small in the PC world out of the water.... both size and price wise... amazingly... (Think M1/2 Mac Mini...especially a refurb). Yes I know you can't upgrade it, but you don't need to for 5+ years... The PC build / enthusiast was never cheap (and was, is an annual cycle), but it was 'affordable' - too a point. Now though I can't say that, I think prices have generally doubled or tripled for key components, CPU's, GPU's & Motherboards... yes some would say performance has too, but in the past it was always 20% more for the same price, if you waited a month or 2 after launch.

As you say, I actually finish games on the Xbox, I don't think I ever did on the PC, always spent half my time tweaking the settings to get the extra FPS or graphics fidelity with a new upgrade etc... or reinstall to get it working with the new upgrade.
 
Then Apple

Sounds to me like you just have no interest either. Macs to my knowledge don't offer Windows compatibility and therefore limited customising, the thing you liked. Your challenge is no longer there, and what's left is going to cost you extra.

I wanted to in recent years make a system that had 5" bays filled (which i'd use) in a smallish system. But hardware and Windows isn't of any better quality in recent years, in fact i'd argue it's of overall lesser quality. Windows update continues to break or undo my systems, and i'm a casual. Hardware consistently giving me issues... I've currently got a multiple boot beep that sometimes happens out of nowhere now, and today Vegas vid editor decides its broken. On a reasonably fresh machine.

Burnt out, not bored, i suspect is the reason for many being unhappy. And at no fault of their own.
 
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