I do not normally like to do this but here goes..

Yep, agree, sounds like she doesn't really want to be with you, and the whole old relationship thing is a bit of a get out.

Move on, there's more than one woman in the world!
 
ClaritY^ said:
As we work together we see each other every weekday, and everytime we talk and we pass i get that weird feeling in my stomach.
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Oh i know that feeling dude, got it this morning, woke up after a dream, i had kissed a girl who i hadnt known too long, she was gorgeous and i just wanted her for some reason, one of those love at 1st sight things, anywaym while kissing i got that feeling, woke up gutted...

Wouldnt mine a gurl atm to be honest...

peace.

James.
 
To be completely honest I doubt it'll work out ... I mean she decides 5 days in that it's too early for another relationship, I mean c'mon?, chances are when you fall out of a boat you wanna jump back on, to be completely honest I wouldn't stick around too long as she might not like you (what women say and mean are completely different)

I'd hold out but look elsewhere you'll probably find some other hot chick, who you can put your love inside of.

... But don't be a jerk about it, you can still be her friend, don't make it look like your trying to annoy her as I don't think that's what you want.

BTW are you sure that feeling was in your stomach and not your pants?
 
titchard said:
Step one: Calm down!

Step two: If it is meant to be, it's meant to be - you can't force someone to like you, maybe you need to just stay friendly and give her some space, I think she would find it wierder if you just stop talking to her full stop.

Step three: ???

Step four: PROFIT!!!

Rich
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No no no no NO! You've got it all wrong!

Step one: SUPRISE BUTTSECHS!!!!11

Step two: ???

Step three: PROFIT!
 
scorza said:
I hate to be the one to say this, but she's probably lying and saying all this "oh it's too soon" crap as a polite way of giving you the brush off.
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I don't agree, 5 days is extremely quick.

However, you can't force this situation as she'll just pull away from you more. Leave it for now - she'll tell you if and when she's ready for a relationship with you. :)
 
I think once a girl says that, you dont really stand a chance as you have a 'past' maybe im wrong, butleave it a lil longer than a few weeks and then see what happens... take it slower, why not ask her to the cinema, or out for a walk somewhere nice, be friends, dont have to rush into it..
 
Ouch, advice you find someone else to get over her before you do something stupid. Then you can dump the other person because it's too soon - thus the cycle is complete.
 
GO WEB GO!!!!

Seriously, she's either

1) Doesn't fancy/like you
2) Eager to get back with the ex

There is no "In between" crap. If she wants you, she would be with you now, not even Eastenders could keep her home.

Sod her, she had her chance, and she lost out. How you react to this comment by her in the early stages is crucial. Act like you're not bothered. Hit on every woman in your office, even the old married ones, they love the attention and will always speak highly of you for it. She should be privileged to be asked out by you. Show her what a bint she has been by taking out other girls and making sure she knows about it during office chit chat. Remember to be CONFIDENT! She will never start seeing some whining puppy dog who is all "emotional", etc. Woman want a man, and one who can protect them. The man in the first page was right, they want what they can't have. She can't have you now, you're dating all those other hussies.

Remember those two things in a sack?! Yea! You have a pair, act like a man! GRRR SPARTTAAAAA!!!
 
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