I do not normally like to do this but here goes..

scorza said:
I hate to be the one to say this, but she's probably lying and saying all this "oh it's too soon" crap as a polite way of giving you the brush off. Sorry, but that's my reading of the situation based on your post alone.
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I'm afraid this was my reading of the situation as well. When you say she told you it was "too soon after another relationship", do you mean she was dumped? If so, she still probably wants her former boyfriend.
 
Probably best that it stops now rather than it turning sour down the line because she wasn't ready. Especially as you work together.
 
ClaritY^ said:
Recently i went out this girl from work, we out for about 5 days before she called it off because it was too soon after another relationship, i was pretty gutted as we had got on so well and everything. She says she really likes me, but doesnt want me waiting around for her when she doesnt know when she will be ready!
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This is girlspeak for "I've changed my mind". Condolences.
 
ClaritY^ said:
A little bit of advice if you kind people of OCUK forums would be so kind, and yes its a relationship one.. *waits for moans*

Recently i went out this girl from work, we out for about 5 days before she called it off because it was too soon after another relationship, i was pretty gutted as we had got on so well and everything. She says she really likes me, but doesnt want me waiting around for her when she doesnt know when she will be ready!

As we work together we see each other every weekday, and everytime we talk and we pass i get that weird feeling in my stomach.

I really really really like her, but ive learnt from past relationships not to push! But i have all these feelings which are stuck inside and i just want to tell her but i dont know if i should and how she will react. I have all the time in the world for her!

Thanks in advance,
C
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She spent 5 day's getting to know you properly, decided she didn't like what she saw and dumped you, move on.
 
I agree shes probably just not that in to you. At least you didn't get the ultimate excuse 'We just don't have enough in common'

I would personally avoid being a friends with her if you want more as theres a good chance you will only feel worse in the future when she goes out with a complete tool, i have seen this happen many times.
 
If you tell her exactly how you feel now you'll probably scare her off and annoy her as she's already told you it's too soon.

Wait it out, be yourself, you'll know when the time is right if you're OK for landing.

Failing that, one day at work walk up to her crying with your todger hanging out, it's sure to work!
 
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