I do agree that the ref should be mic'ed up and they should start disciplining players for their behaviour. I guess the counter argument is that you want the passion from the players and its very high stakes. They would probably get used to not being able to call the ref a **** ***** ****** ***** quite quickly though.
Rugby (which seems to be held up as some parallel sport to football for some reason) doesn't have these issues because its a much simpler sport and you can smash the **** out of someone who is annoying you. A lot of their VAR decisions are a lot more clear cut than ours. The ones they get wrong are unsurprisingly the calls that are super marginal or up for interpretation.
I completely disagree with the "rugby is a simple sport" thing tbh. The difference between the sports is the ref wont take any **** and if a player acts like an idiot he's walking. Football refs in this country think they are celebrities and try to be mates with the players as opposed to refereeing the game. Pundits also dont help...they should be there for their opinion and to educate the people watching yet the majority dont know the laws of the game. I was listening to the Arsenal game on the radio just the other day and they were debating whether it was a red or not and claimed because Luiz didnt make a a tackle it means it isnt a red.
The refs are mic'ed up we just dont hear whats being said but i imagine that more to do with the players more then anything.
Just ref using the actual laws of the game.