I'm so confused...

First of all she's done it once, it's quite likely she'll do it again and for all you know she's done it in the past - dump her and dump her fast!

If applicable make sure you get all your stuff back from her before dumping her. Then dump her and if you have any of her stuff flog it on fleabay.

Most of all try and get out with some mates tonight or tommorrow night, get drunk and have a night of single, guilt free fun!
 
remove them both from your life. if she wants you back then she will come to you and she will be prepared to bloody work for it, if not then you will have lost very little. It will hurt for a long time, and im sure you will miss her dreadfully. we go through a form of mourning when a relationship ends, i sometimes think of it as a mourning for a lost future, all those silly plans we all make in our heads. the truth is the best way to run your life is on a day by day basis and desperately try not to look too far behind or too far forward. Good Luck.
 
Well here's the update; she came over this morning i open my door and its her. We had a chat, mostly me telling how disgusted i was with her. She then went to work and she is back at 7pm. She says she wants to see me, but tbh i don't want to see her. As a few of you have said this could me a new chapter in life; maybe an opportunity to get on with life and live it up as a single guy?

Hell knows what I'm gonna do without her but tbh i don't even care; i have had a day to look at what has happened and I'm feeling fairly positive.
Cheers for all the reply nice to have other peoples opinions sometimes.

Right roll on the not so fun part...
 
like many have already said..

ditch them both. better for everyone all round.

single guy thing? yeah do it. let her know you're gonna enjoy yourself mate.
 
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Agreed. If she can't be trusted then she can't be trusted, if you let her into your life again I believe that she will do it again.

I can only imagine how you feel about the guy, I got really worked up about a guy hitting on my girlfriend that I can only imagine how you must feel about him kissing yours.

P.S Go out with some mates to a club, hook up and get laid!
 
mdixson said:
Well here's the update; she came over this morning i open my door and its her. We had a chat, mostly me telling how disgusted i was with her. She then went to work and she is back at 7pm. She says she wants to see me, but tbh i don't want to see her. As a few of you have said this could me a new chapter in life; maybe an opportunity to get on with life and live it up as a single guy?

Hell knows what I'm gonna do without her but tbh i don't even care; i have had a day to look at what has happened and I'm feeling fairly positive.
Cheers for all the reply nice to have other peoples opinions sometimes.

Right roll on the not so fun part...
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Fantastic attitude
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So done it was the hardest thing ever; she went clingy and i had to get one of her mates to hold her while i left. Now for the fun of trying to still be social with her at work and about.
S*** why does life have to be so hard... :(
 
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That must suck to see something like that. :( Stupid birch is going to either:

A) Try and turn on the waterworks, 24/7 and try and mug you off.
B) Get with your flatmate and get on with life.

I don't think what she did even warrants a explanation from her, you saw all you needed too, i'm sure, anyway!

Seriously, DEFINATELY get rid of your flat mate, its not like he can claim that it "just happened", since you said you thought he had an ulterior motive from the start.

I'd take the "i don't give a cluck" stance. :) ;)
 
Grab your keyboard, and whack them in the face :cool:

On a serious note, IMO i wouldnt of been 'too' botherd if it was just a kiss but the fact she smiled i would personally burn her house down :mad:

DUMP HER DUMP HER DUMP HER
 
mdixson said:
So done it was the hardest thing ever; she went clingy and i had to get one of her mates to hold her while i left. Now for the fun of trying to still be social with her at work and about.
S*** why does life have to be so hard... :(
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Excellent work dude. You will probably regret it regularly for quite a while, but not half as much as you would have regretted taking her back next time she handed it to another one of your 'friends'.. Which brings me to the second part of my posty post.. What's the dealy with the housemate?, is he due a smack?, or is he a particularly big fellow or something? (or maybe you're not the type to lay into someone, by all rights i'm not really).


Either way, stick to your guns dude and don't take her back. Gals a ho.
 
Options:

1. Punch her in the ovaries.
2. Get back together with her and cheat on her with as many women as possible - why should she be having fun with your best mate while you are now single? At least make her suffer.
3. Threesome. Maybe even an orgy. Depends how many other people she wants to ....
 
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